Why do girls where jewelry from there exs???

Question

Well recently I broke up with my girlfriend about 3 months ago. We were togather for almost 4 years, by far the longest relationship I have ever had. I loved her truely but unfortuneately the love died...I think. I still think about her everyday unfortuneately and there is nothing I can do to change that. Well after a month of our break or probably less she was dateing other people, rediculous huh. There hasnt even been one girl I have thought about dateing since but thats a whole deffierent topic I guess. Well I saw her recently, in which I wish I didn't, there was nothing acomplished and wounds just opend up again. But what I noticed is this shes still wearing the watch I bought her, the rings, the diamond earings in which she has never taken out, along with all kinds of other things I bought for includeing digital camera in which I am shure she has been useing. I guess she has never bought me something that I have or could wear everyday, in fact she didnt really buy me much. But heres the question, esp. to the females are there emotions still attached to things or apparently not I guess if she is seeing other people so quick. Do those things still have meaning to them that make you go aw or are they just objects that really have no signifigant value in which they have no attachment to what so ever. How do these feel to a person after along term relationship break up? I would love to hear some comments or something related to this. I loved this girl, I am 25 now, no kids thank GOD!!, and I know in my heart there was someone a whole h**l of alot better for me out there than her!!

Thanks =)

Answer 1

Those things still have meaning .  You know it. /

Answer 2

I think it depends on the person to be honest. I can't wear any of the jewellery that my ex boyfriend bought me because it brings back all the emotions. However, whenever I see him, he's always wearing the jewellery I bought him but I think that may be because it's a part of me and he doesn't want to let go. In the case of your ex, I'm sorry to say it, but I don't think your ex really cares about where the gifts came from and what they mean. She obviously doesn't care otherwise she wouldn't be dating someone less than a month after you split up and you're obviously way too good for her. Try not to think about her, I know it's hard but try. Go out and do new things and maybe you will meet your soul mate through your new activities.

Answer 3

   I didn't read your whole question (too long!!!!) (don't get mad at me for that)  But I'd say it's because it's cute jewelry. It's not like she's just obbsesed with you or something.

Answer 4

I still wear allll the jewelry my exes gave me. I'm not going to stop wearing the things they gave me because it didn't work out. I accept that those people were an important part of my emotional growth and that we aren't together - but their gifts represent a time when I was happy and I've gotten over the fact that it's not meant to be - but I still appreciate that they cared enough to give me a beautiful piece of jewelry.

Some items may carry a sentimental value and some are just really awesome looking, so I kept them.

I think you should be glad your ex is wearing all the stuff you bought her - she obviously still likes them and you know she didn't sell them (so you didn't waste your $ !!!). I am still wearing the gold watch my ex bought me nearly two years ago - no hard feelings there. So why not?

Answer 5

well some girls still wear the jewelry cuz its a really nice piece of jewelry, we are not going to trow something away that is that nice/expensive. and some do still wear it because they still have feelings for their ex. i say you call her up or something and ask her what the jewelry means to her

Answer 6

Well my bf has bought me alot of nice things like that. If we were 2 break up there would be emotions attached to those things I would prob not wear them anymore or give them back. It seems like this girl since she started dating new people so fast, is just wearing and useing these things, cuz  they are nice things, that look nice but thats it.