Why do guys I date always ask me what is the biggest p***s I've ever had?

Question

I told my fiance the truth that the biggest I've ever had was when I dated a big black football player. He asked how big was he and I said the truth about 9 inches and extremely fat. Now he's mad wtf? Can anyone explain why guys get so weird about it? I mean I have little b***s but I don't care!

Answer 1

He's insecure. I just love it when people ask a question that's really none of their business and then freak out over the answer. If I were you, I'd take a strong look at whether this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. What other insecurities are going to rear their ugly heads? If you don't like his reaction to this, and clearly you don't, you aren't going to like the other things either, and believe me, if he's being an *** about this he'll be just as bad if not worse about anything else that comes up in the future.

I've always believed that if you truly love someone, you accept them past and all.  

Answer 2

Hehe know exactly how u feel....Guys are really touchy sometimes worse than girls... My boyfriend gets jealous coz i slept wif more people than he has..  He has no right tough to get angry after he asked the question and all u did was answer it truthfully. I guess sometime the truth isnt what you should say just say i dont remember or somethin....    

Answer 3

They are self conscious....

Answer 4

you have a lot to learn my dear. men ask this question because they want you to say' yours is the biggest ive ever seen you big bad boy'  it is a pathetic ego thing so if you dont want any fuss just say that or something along those lines

Answer 5

Hmm Katie has a new account I see!!! What about the Jamaican guy u were dating???

Answer 6

Cus their willies are like their ego!!!And when it does not match others they feel intimidated and insecure!!! Funny, but true sadly :p

Answer 7

it's upsetting that you screwed a AFRIKAN.WHAT WAS WRONG WITH A BIG WHITE FOOTBALL PLAYER.

Answer 8

Because it turns them on that you had a big one.  I love girls that like well endowed men.  

Answer 9

It's because you date some weird *** motherf*ckers. I've never asked a chick that kind of B.S., and most dudes at least up in here in BK wouldn't ask something so dumb.

Answer 10

He's worried he can't satisfy you. It's a male security thing. So much of our culture is bound up in s*x, and in modern times it's been all about pleasing the woman. Men didn't used to care about such things, and then p**n showed up, and now every man feels bad if he's not hung like a pornstar.

Just tell him he's awesome in bed, even if it's a lie or an embelishment, and tell him that he satisfies you and so on. You get the idea. That's what he needs to hear. We men are extremely ego-bound and competitive by nature, and especially when it comes to s*x, we can't really help it, that's just how we're wired. He needs to know he's your number one guy.

Answer 11

It is to be answered the same way as the females: "Do I look fat in this?" You tell them what they want to hear, not the truth! Don't completely lie of course, but say something like yours is ONE of the biggest I've had. They are very self-conscious about this. Don't deflate their pride.

Answer 12

It all come any races , not all black men are bigger than any races. It's myth.

And I do believe you are a racist.

Answer 13

funny how girls just let themselves go with just anybody. Guys have insecurities when it comes to that kind of thing. they want to know if what they have can satisfy you better then the other...penises that you have had in your life. big or small.

Answer 14

because of their insecurity.

Answer 15

Insecurity.  If a guy asks you that question, ditch the loser and find a better guy.

Answer 16

It's the ultimate issue in male self-image.  Even if you don't have a sleek, skinny, nubile body, if you have a very long p***s nothing else matters.  Perhaps some people are so hung up about knowing they're the best that they can't imagine you'd be happy with them.  

Plus penises and b***s are different.  You can automatically see how big a girls b***s are.  It's out there in the open.  The p***s is hidden, so there is a greater taboo and mystery attached to it.  And anything that is taboo or mysterious often leads to lack of information and misappropriation.  

I never asked a girl I was with about previous guys because I don't care about the past or comparing myself to them.  I figure, if she's with me now, who cares about what came before?  

Answer 17

because guys don't like the feeling of tossing a hotdog down a hallway.

We much prefer slipping into jeans that are a size or 2 smaller than us.

Answer 18

lmao.. thats funny.

Answer 19

Hahaha so funny, Dont ever tell the truth!!  You and your poor boyfriend arent going to last very long I'm afraid, he is going to trade you for a girl who tells him that he is the biggest she's even seen and he can feel like DA MAN!  

Answer 20

It doesn't mean he's insecure to a level that you have to worry about. Every man wants to know that he can please his woman. So naturally if you tell him about a man you've slept with that had a larger p***s. He's going to start to realize that you are capable of handling much more than his. Ineither to make him feel better you will have to reasure him that you love his p***s and that just because the other man's was bigger. Doesn't mean it felt better. Even if it did dont tell him that. Men are sensitive to their performance abilities.  

Answer 21

they are fishing for compliments most of the time.  rarely is this type of question asked out of a sense of curiosity.

Answer 22

this is the 5th time you asking this question.

your racist!

not all black are big and not all white are little.

Answer 23

its like a competition, the bigger the better..........