Why do guys do this?????????????? i am so <span title="confused??????????????????????????">confused?????????????????...</span>

Question

im in the 11th grade there is this guy at my school who whenever i happen to see him is always staring at me. for example last week i was driving out of the parking lot and there was a line to exit it and so my car was stopped. he was right like 6 feet away from my car to the left standing with his friends. i could see from the corner of my eye that he was staring at me for over 40 seconds straight. it made me uncomfortable so i pretended like i didn't see and that i was messing with my radio or w/e. this happens all the time.i always ignore it and pretend i don't see him b/c its awkward. i like him but i don't know why he doesn't talk to me and why he does this? we have hardly ever talked and only have 1 class together. he is popular but i never see him with girls. he stares so often even when im walking with my friends.why? and what do i do? this staring has been going on OVER ONE YEAR. its like whenever he sees me he stops w/e hes doing and stare

Answer 1

he obviously likes you. he sounds like he&#039;s just shy. talk to him!

:)

Answer 2

You are afraid to talk to him, but he is afraid to talk to you.

If you want to talk to him, this is what you do. Next time you see him staring at you, look at him, look away, and then look back and smile at him. If that doesn&#039;t work, next time, wink at him and smile.  Give him an opening and some encouragement and he should take it.

Answer 3

maybe he likes you.

maybe he hates you.

maybe he&#039;s g*y, trying to learn how to look pretty, and you&#039;re his basis.

maybe he&#039;s too shy.

maybe he&#039;s a serial killer.

just ask him what he wants.

Answer 4

Eyes are the best thing to use to flirt.  Next time he is staring just make eye contact and give a smile.  Not a fake one though.  This should give him some confidence to talk to you.

Answer 5

1. he is a pervert

2. he really really likes you and is too shy to talk to you

3. if you dont want him to stear tell him to get lost

Answer 6

Are you blonde?????????? This guy really likes you.

Answer 7

Interesting typo. You wrote that he always stares at &quot;... my as...&quot;. Did you type &quot;y&quot; instead of &quot;e&quot; in the first word, or did you leave an &quot;s&quot; off the second word?

Answer 8

Ok, so it is pretty clear you guys like each other and are both scared to talk to each other.  Body language and eye contact often tell people what we don&#039;t say in words.  As it stands now, you are sending a message that you are pretty much completely unaware of him and his interest in you.  Try looking back at him when he stares.  Maybe you could even smile.  When you pass each other, smile and say hello.  You can&#039;t control what he does, but you can control what you do, and you could probably offer him encouragement to speak to you by showing him that you see him and are aware that he sees you.  Good luck!

Answer 9

hes shy and hes scared to talk to you. You guys have to do something about that cause once its gone ull regret it and you wish you tried. i know its scarrie but its all worth it in the end. go talk to him hes too shy xD. A guy stares at you because hes thinkin about talking to you but in the end hes fear overcome hima nd he walks away and if he does that a lot whenever he sees you he probably want you to notice him and if u look at him he will probably turn around and that definately mean he likes you, Best thing to do is talk to him in a 1 on 1 conversatoin oOoo. good luck xD