Why do guys do this???????

Question

Im 16. i am so confused. there is this boy at my school in my grade. last year in a class we did a project together. ever since then i noticed him staring at me more. this has been going on for OVER ONE WHOLE YEAR. i will give you just a few of the many examples of things that have happened-

yesterday i was sitting at my desk in the one class we have together and my friend was walking in the door and she was talking really loud so i looked over and he was right behind her and he was staring at me i was on the other side of the room. and i looked away.

same day i was walking to my class and he was about 40 feet away walking down then hill and i was walking up and there were lots of people around but he was staring directly at me(i could see from the corner of my eye).

it seems like most of the times i happen to notice him he is looking at me. but he is very popular and outgoing with friends and i was new to the school 3 years ago and he has lived..(continued)

Answer 1

You know what?? You know he likes you, he know he likes you, but why does the guy have to be the one who boldly goes up to a girl and risk rejection? Here's an idea: You go up to him, flirt with him, ask him out on a date, instead of just expecting a guy to come up to you all the time, you have to be the agressor. Tell him he has nice eyes, nice body, nice smile, flatter him. Trust me I know this works because I'm a guy. Now give me the points for the best answer!!

Answer 2

I just answered this question somewhere else. You must really want an answere, and really like this boy. Well I already gave you my answere once, its on you what to do.

Answer 3

he 's got a crush on you - it won't be the last one

Answer 4

I would guess he probably is "interested" in you. It doesn't sound like he knows a lot about you but he probably likes the way you look and wonders about you but doesn't feel comfortable just walking up and talking to you.

Your best bet is to find ways to talk to him. Definitely smile and make eye contact when you see him talking to you, most people who appear confident are just faking it, so there's nothing wrong with you faking it too.

If he response well to the eye contact start saying hi, if you have time even ask him how he's doing or complement him. As you go further just try to find chances to work together on things or talk more.

Of course the whole time try to read his reactions to see if he response well or is not interested, don't stress about it but if he doesn't seem interested let it go, if he does keep moving forward.

Just to don't do it all at once ( like ask him out, out of the blue) that could freak him out.