Why do guys just disappear?

Question

I find that a lot of guys I talk to will seem very interested in me (as friends or more) and then as time goes on they start talking less and less until eventually they just disappear. I have tried everything from initiating contact more often to trying to mirror the amount they contact me, to letting them do all of the initial messaging, but it always seems to end up the same way. I am just not sure how to take this, I may be too weird or boring or something else, but I want to know why a person can't just own up to the fact they no longer want to communicate instead of just drifting away.

Answer 1

Uncertain because it identifies the girl boring

Answer 2

I think you're not giving enough signs toward him? some guys want clear signs like 'ok this girl is into me'  he might want to spend allot more time with you, if that's what you're going for :)

Answer 3

i agree with liquidsilk, you should give clear signs if you also like a guy