Why do guys stare at my friend?

Question

I was wondering why guys are always staring at my friend?i'm not jealous, i am just curious. she is 16 and 5'10". we were at the beach and this guy in a car was stopped at a stop sign near us and was staring intently at her face.

next day we were at lunch and this guy made eyecontact with her for a few seconds as we were leaving.

same day we were at dinner and i thought i forgot my phone so i turned around and when i turned around i caught this guy completely staring at her backside and i think he was caught off guard when we both turned around.

she's 5'10",very slender,nice butt,small chest,pretty face,shy. idon't get why guys are always checking her out and not me? i'm 5'2" SO MAYBE do they like her long legs?

Answer 1

Maybe it's the fact that your friend is more attractive but don't worry there are different guys out there and in sometime they'll check you out!

Answer 2

I think the first answerer is right. I don't think it means you aren't hot. I think you don't notice the menfolk checkin out your backside. Also maybe you should think about, you may be making her look taller and maybe more exotic when you're next to her. Setting off that reaction. There is nothing wrong with 5'2". In fact I think you're only two inches below average height. But the comparison next to a super tall girl may make her look more interesting than she is.

Answer 3

You're 5'2''?  You sound like a cutie. : )

P.S.

Laughing at the person below me.  Hairy moles?  Ewwwwww!  That's so not right!  ( ^ _ ^ )

Answer 4

so she's hot!

It does sound like there's a bit of jealousy, I guarantee you, guys probably check you out too, except you don't notice it because your always paying attention to who is checking out your friend.

Answer 5

Has it occurred to you that she maybe be totally [HOTT!]?

Answer 6

They love long legs.

Answer 7

cause shes attractive?

Answer 8

No, it's not the height that they're interested in.  It sounds as though she has a very pretty face and guys care more about the face than anything else...unless they're pigs and go for the b***s straight away.  Then you know they're not worth your time.

Answer 9

The guys are a bunch of pervs and maybe shes attractive. But Who wants a bunch of old creepy men looking at them anyways?

Answer 10

Just the way things are.

Answer 11

You know exactly what they are viewing.

They are catching a glimpse of what you see so often that you have become a double voyeur.  You enjoy watching others watch her.  This is great for the ego.

Work on being the perfect escort.  The art of not letting others know that you know they are watching is "priceless".

Answer 12

PRETTY GOOD LOOKING I GUESS

Answer 13

sounds like you're jealous or you wouldn't be concerned enough to post a question about it. it's ok though. she's hot. they are just admiring her beauty.

Answer 14

They are probably checking both you and her out. You might just see them looking at her when ever you see that happen. But just me they wont just check her out. They have to check you out too. Its a rule, so to speak. LOL!

Answer 15

Maybe its those hairy moles sticking out of her neck.

Answer 16

They probably find her to be pretty and also like the fact that she's tall. But that should not affect the way you see your self:)

Answer 17

NO...not legs..face is what attracts most guys...

Different people like different people...Guys are staring at you, you just don't realize that since your to occupied watching out for your friend. So ..that's normal. Don't overload yourself with such thoughts.