Why do guys think they can ignore you all night and then ask for s*x?

Question

You're out in a group, you have zero conversation, it's leaving time and then casual as you please he asks "are you coming back to mine?" you say no and he actually seems shocked. And numerous variations on the vocab but the same outcome. This is happening increasingly often. Different guys each time. No I don't dress or act like I'm loose.

So...

A. What is that about?

B. Does he actually think you're going to say yes, and if so, why?

C. What does that say about me?

D. Does this happen to anyone else? What is your reaction/rebuttal?

Cheers

Answer 1

B/c these types of guys have actually not grown up yet - trust me - they'll change when they mature...

Answer 2

A. They really think of s*x differently than you.  No emotions are attached, and neither are strings.  

B. I don't think they REALLY think you're going to say yes, but they're sure hoping!!  If they DO think you'll say yes, well....Alcohol impairs your thinking and your judgement.

C. It says you're not a w***e who puts out at every invitation.

D. It's happened to me several times in the past.  I was usually casually indifferent to them and didn't think about it again after that.  Pish.