Why do guys who marry asians get ragged on?

Question

How come guys get ragged on or thought of as not the best choice to run the company (so to speak), if they marry an asian girl? Sorry, but the last time I checked american women were too self centered and wanted the man to be sub-subservient to them, because they think men are jerks, so they hold back the number one thing a man desires in the whole world: "respect".

Yah american women turned the tables on us, but now their feminine qualities have gone out the window...

SO can you blame american men for running away from tyrannical american women? I know lots of guys, including me, who have very loyal asian wives and they are NOT slaves, they are fine ladies who work very hard to keep the family together. If the marriage fails it's usually a guy who has vices like drinking or drugs, or food, or a pervert....

I just don't think it's fair to think us guys who like asians are idiots, dorks, or nerds.... it's just that we are conservative.... and asians are conservative..... we believe in family (makes american women gag), and we want peace, not fricking Xena Warrior Princess who mates with a man then leaves, get's a job in a factory and collects child support, then get's an award for Single mom of the year....

Family... that's the reason we marry asians, it's not about slavery...it's about a smile instead of a sneer, an "I love you" 7 times a day, being forgiven 20 times a day for s******g up, it's about asking what you can do for your mate, not what your mate can do for you.... (cliche' I know, but it fits)

Anyways, I don't think guys who marry asians should be ragged on, why are we though? It's not any riskier than marrying a liberated american woman. It's more riskier....(I am not speaking for the dangerous men out there... perverts don't count)

Answer 1

I agree with you "what the heck". A lot of American women has lost their feminine side. A lot of men do like women from another country because their weren't raised spoiled... They were raised to be respectful and non judgmental to other people...  

Answer 2

I agree with you. One major characteristic which sets Asians apart from the rest is their value for family.  Sadly there are lots of American people who look down on Asians because of their traditional ways, small eyes, skin color & smaller features not to mention that they are stereotyped as slaves.

I think what American women need to realize is that there are certain rules portrayed by the diff gender & I'm not talking about being gender-biased here. Women are still women & we cannot change that perspective. Also relationship will only work in both ways & not in one-way only.

Answer 3

It's cool that you like Asian girls.  That's fine everyone like what they like, but you don't have to diss Non-Asian American girls since we all aren't like that.  I think it is childish to diss someone for liking a certain race anyways.  But really you can since like Asian girls and since have respect for Non-Asian American girls, so don't diss us please.

Answer 4

Sounds like you have some serious issues that need to be worked out. There are plenty of American women that do not believe or practice the traits or characteristics you described.  You sound like a sexist and ignorant.

Answer 5

Well, I don't completely agree to some of your points that American women are not worth men's loves, or it was just your personal bad experiences.

However, I am totally with you that Asian women in general have very high family values. They take their husbands and kids as their priority even above themselves and have all their heart and soul to run warm and sweet homes for their families.

It takes time for some people to accept their American guys getting married with Asians.  When more and more successful and happy American/Asian marriages found in this country, people will realise what the concepts they have once had before were but wrong.  It takes time to prove to people.

Answer 6

There's nothing wrong with marrying an asian or anybody for that matter my friend. I only have a problem with old farts who marry mail-order child brides from other countries, usually those brides happen to be Asian (or European) sold from poor families with no chance of freedom.

And I think your stereotyping a bit much, ever know an Asian-American woman by any chance? They're as diverse as every other American woman (latino, white, racially mixed, black, etc...)  

Answer 7

Heres something I'll let you know from experience....every interracial couple WILL BE ragged on. Its a given. People can protest at this as much as they want, but Americans do not accept them.  You get dirty looks and mean comments wherever you go. But hey, its your personal choice and opinion that you're entitled to if you like asian women. Good for you.  

Answer 8

Women who get nasty at you for marrying whoever you want are always in the wrong.

I think in this case it could be jealousy & even slight racism on their part. I don't think all American women are ignorant like that but if you've hurt one they could use it as an excuse to turn on your wife or you.

As for interracial marriages, well I'm all thumbs up about it. There's nothing better than accepting a different culture into your life. I think in Russia, we are quite open about this even though it's quite a new thing... since we don't get much foreigners here.

Answer 9

F*CK YOU FOR YOUR STEREOTYPING