Why do husbands cheat?From J.Edwards to A-Rod to yr hubby.Doesn't any1 have morals or take vows seriously?

Question

.What's your best take??

Answer 1

no not many people have morals anymore, they just want what they want when they want it and think consequences are non-issues.

But plenty of women cheat as well, not just the men.

Answer 2

Because the wives keep enabling them.  I wish one-- just one of them -- would take them to the moral, financial, and legal cleaners.

Answer 3

They just didn't care, didn't love their spouse enough, not thinking about anyone but themselves, think they can get away with it, etc. It's just sad :x

Answer 4

My partner doesn't cheat. Vows schmows. What I take seriously is our love for each other. Anyone who cheats is self absorbed. Period.  

Answer 5

Many women have great s*x lives with their partners, then get married and have kids and the s*x with their husband dwindles to close to zero. On top of that, many spend, spend spend and complain about how "bad" their day was taking care of kids meanwhile the husband is beating his brains out working so hard and would trade places in a second.

So no s*x and a sense of entitlement from their wives leads many men astray.

Of course alot are just scum but  there are many wives that cheat and marry for money as well.  

Answer 6

The problem is people don't have the fear of God anymore. You know everytime i did something bad something would bad would happen to me. And i took that as God telling me not to do wrong. True Story!!

Answer 7

i guess there have to be some that do. if you ever figure this out look me up!

Answer 8

My guess would be no. That's why I'm not married, never been married, and never will be married. Both of my sisters have been cheated on. I think if you want a man to be faithful, he should be geriatric!

Answer 9

My husband would never cheat even when i was going through depression didn't have s*x with him over 3 months, all he did was have his magazines so no not all men cheat mine don't

Answer 10

marriage is made up and society just follows along... its not logical to be with one person for the rest of your life.. not for everyone anyways... i will speak for those of us who know we want multiple people in our lives... sadly your husband didnt' realize he could not commit most people get bored or think they will be happier somewhere else then try it out (cheat) find someone who is definate that its forever its hard to find people like that..

Answer 11

I never cheated but I came close a couple of times and the reason I even gave it a thought was because my wife was depriving me and I hadn't even done anything wrong. I once went 13 months without s*x but I never cheated. It was not an easy thing to do.

Answer 12

Some men are just complete jerks who can't control themselves. But I do think that sometimes if men are not happy or do not get enough positive attention from their wives, they feel like c**p and they go looking for affirmation someplace else.  Women are the same though.  We all need to feel like we are special to someone.

Answer 13

Cheating is not for men only. Women are just more vocal when their men cheat, they just go mad. When a woman cheats on her man, it emotionally castrates him.  

Answer 14

All this cheating is just proof that marriage is not normal, and is an out of date, ancient custom that should be abolished just like slavery.

Answer 15

People are human. They are always looking for that "newness" and "excitment" of a relationship. They don't think they can ever have that again with the person they are with and that is sad. If my husband ever cheated I just hope he keeps it a secret and never falls in love or fathers a child. Ignorance is bliss. If we are "happy" then I want to keep it that way.  

Answer 16

It's fun. Like flipping a coin that has heads on both sides.

- Dent.

Answer 17

I guess they cheat for the same reasons that women do!  Why tar all men with the same brush?

Answer 18

I can only speak for myself. My wife never lets me out the door without my manly's being soar. That's a rule of thumb. It's been like this all the years we have been married and I just don't have any desire for  another woman. I also make a continuous effort to stay away of females that may be attractive to me so the opportunity honestly, or desire, has never come up and into play.

Answer 19

This is not a purely "husband" problem..."wives" cheat too, and it is unfair for either creed to be judged by the worst examples they have.  Having said that, my take is just this.  When a mate cheats on their spouse, it is simply that they have failed to grow up and accept the big responsibility of becoming a MAN or if female, instead of being a girl, they need to be a LADY!!!  A cheater qualifies as neither of those.  I believe a relationship needs trust, love, commitment and devotion.  You do not love until the day you have a person in your life that if you were to hurt them in any manner, it would be more painful to you than what they would ever feel.  The cheaters cheat because they are selfish.  Plain, pure, and simple.    

Answer 20

just remember that married men usually cheat with married women. I think you would be surprised at the amount of married women that cheat.

Answer 21

How could you forget Bill or Kobe. I don't know I guess we are unsatisfied with our wives lol.

Answer 22

I think very few do!

Answer 23

People who cheat are selfish.  Plain and simple.  All they care about are themselves and their desires.  Horrible.  They are weak heartless people.

Answer 24

In my opinion, people who have a celebrity status have too much temptation thrown their way.  I don't think that is an excuse, but I think that sometimes they forget what is most important and give in.  

Answer 25

I'll ask the opposite question why do women cheat?  I think you'll find it's the same answer.

Answer 26

My best take is that wives cheat also! Why would you not acknowledge that also. Want an example? Pamela Smart..... she not only cheated on her husband, but also had her lover (a high school boy) plot with her to kill him!

In response to your actual question is though, I would have to say only one thing. They are NOT men, they are selfish egotistical, immature boys! Men do not treat Lady's like that.

Answer 27

All husbands do not cheat just as all wifes do not cheat, married

over 21yrs and have never cheated and neither has she.

Answer 28

Cause they ain't getting enough at home.

Answer 29

This is a very broad question- because every one cheats for their own reasons, and yes, the morals of today's society have gone seriously downhill.  However, there are some good men out there that do not cheat.  My husband now is faithful to a fault, and unfortunately, he often has to deal with my neurotic suspicions as I have been cheated on repeatedly by my first husband.  But, like I said, some men are good ones and they will stand by you even when you doubt them!  Good luck!

Answer 30

Christian men and women do honor each other and their vows.

Answer 31

Nope they dont.

Men are all the same.

You cant trust any of them and they dont know how to stay faithful

They are either already cheating or looking to cheat.