Why do i always have bad dreams? and in most of them my boyfriend is somewhere else cheating on me...?

Question

its wierd, i know. but im fairly certain hes not cheating on me, so its not like i think he is or something...also i dont watch scary movies or anything because we have a 3 yr old, so i have no time to even if i liked them. dreams like a dinosaur is chasing me and my child and my boyf was with a friend of mine "getting it on" and my dream cuts back and forth from t-rex to him and my friend. or a bad guy is trying to kill us, and hes with another chick! anyone know why?

Answer 1

Better watch your bf

Answer 2

It's like, not trusting him to help you in

your time of need.

I've had dreams like that.

Answer 3

Often dreams are a reflection of your waking thoughts. Whether or not these thoughts are justified or not. Many times these dreams use symbolism to express these thoughts to you. These symbols often take on very frightening persona's. Sometimes the greater the fear the greater and more terrifying these symbols may manifest themselves. To get back to you on a specific basis. You used the phrase, fairly certain. This to me seems to  express on your part, well maybe he is or maybe you are just imagining this. In either case its enough to build a dream around. I believe the rest of the symbolism is probably you just plugging in these associations with your fears. On the other hand they may have some actual basis in reality. I just don't know you.  Hope your dreams get better.  Bob

Answer 4

sounds to me like a fear of losing your family. totally understandible.a god security system usually calms down those dreams. Dreams like that are toughto fix. some require you to be closer to him. some just pass with time. all i can say is hang tight