Why do i always run out of confidence? i mean, why i have no confidence at all?

Question

this is a little bit personal question, albeit i think this issue is common to most guys

Answer 1

Confidence is when you finally throw out  your preconceptions or learned conceptions about yourself, take the plunge, and greet yourself at your own door in surprise, awe, and appreciation of what you've achieved.  

Answer 2

This is an issue common to most people (not just guys). I'm not sure if the 'confidence' you refer to is specific to say, meeting women, or if it is your overall confidence. Also, I don't, of course, know you and so know nothing about your childhood (which could have had a big impact on the your confidence), but I suggest you ask yourself the following questions; are you generally an honest person, do you treat people well, are you thoughtful, capable of being selfless, do you keep promises, is your personal integrity important to you, do you contribute to your community, do you contribute to society (e.g have a job, receiving an education), do you listen well, are you a loyal friend, are you kind, are you friendly.... if you've answered YES to most of these questions then I would say that you are a good and decent person

who people would love to be around. Just be you.

Answer 3

You are young yet. Therefore you have done nothing that warrants confidence. Only when others begin expressing their confidence in you will you gain yours.

Answer 4

No confidence? Start with adding more intelligence, read, talk to people, take on responsibilities, try to solve small problems, then difficult problems.

Learn to navigate the world and to understand things, understand people around you and in no time you will get your confidence up.

Answer 5

...lack of or no experience...keep trying...good luck...

Answer 6

"What you are missing the most.....you already have".

Listen closely....the secret is: It requires Courage to overcome Fear.

God Our Heavenly Father instills us with this Courage.  We have to actively take charge of it and walk through the invisible wall of fear.

Once we're on the other side of it.........we're FREE of what?  It doesn't make sense to us, as to why we were ever afraid in the first place.  It seems so silly that we were afraid (lacked confidence) of a certain situation or person.

It took courage for you to ask this question.  It's not personal at all, it's an age old one.  Sought out through the history of the Bible and all ancient ages.  The wise follow the Word of God.  Example: David killing Goliath the giant with throwing one small stone, because he had courage within him through Our mighty God.

Confidence/courage is an issue with females and males alike.  It's the realization of the secret within, which empowers us.  Try it.

I believe you will find the key to the secret lies within you, too. Unlock it and walk through today.  "There's never anything to fear, but fear itself". No matter what the situation is.  

Think about this, who's going to kill you if you aren't always the sharpest pencil in the box?  NO ONE.  This would be your answer, also.

Blessings<><:)

  

Answer 7

8 You could care about other people and gain more confidence. Read about taking the actions of aBodhisattvaa. They have tons of confidence.

Answer 8

if you are trying to rely on self, give up. You will always lose.