Why do i cry so easily in front of him?

Question

I've known this guy for three years and haven't seen him in person in about that time. He goes to college in another state. He's a Sagittarius (true) and I'm a Gemini (pretty true). I've always been attracted to him and him...well its safe to say that there attraction. He's there for me and even though he think of himself as a loser/coward, I think of him as a real keeper both friendship wise and romantically. Something about him really makes me not want to lose him- I've been a "player" and I haven't been able to get this out of my mind! I can be with a better looking and richer guy but this guy stimulates my mind !! He intrigues me with his philosophies and his yearning to find truth. I've been webcamming with him and I notice when I talk to him about sensitive things, I just cry right on cam. I shock myself how sensitive I am. I tell him I don't want to lose him in my life and how much he means to me. How much he changed me for the better. I say this because we're an ocean apart (5000miles) and I know theres a chance we could easily just split ways. But he says that will "never" happen and not to cry. The guy even says I look cute crying.... but yeah I tell him I feel like such a loser wearing my heart on my sleeve like this and he says I'm not. I've never been this way before to a guy. Why am I doing this? I don't cry THIS easily ever. What do you think about the whole situation?

Answer 1

maybe you just miss him...  

Answer 2

Well,you are,based on the information you just gave,acting like a drama queen.

I think that if you don't want to cry anymore you just got to stop being so open with him.

Answer 3

i think its really sweet !

and your not a loser, its nice 2 cry sometimes and get it all out of our system, and its really nice when someone who you really love and who loves you is there, to comfort you. maybe he's really got to you emotionally, in a good way. and i'm pretty sure there's a connection between you two

i'm not to sure what else to say lol

but you two sound like a really good couple....i really do hope everything works out

:)

x

Answer 4

Drama queen to the max.  Do you watch yourself in the mirror while you cry to see how cute you look??

Too funny.

Answer 5

i read like the first sentence and i got bored so i read the last. please get to the point next time [no disrespect] you probably cry easily because you trust him. Its good to know that there are people in the world we can rely on

Answer 6

i def find sags to be keepers, as I am a gemini as well!  

I can relate to your situation except, I havent cried in front my sag (ex) in like 3 yrs and that happend when we were together and he mostly did the crying cuz he tended to be sensitive.  

gemini and sag make a great duo (ie also my best bud is a sag and her current bf of 6 years is a gemini). dont let him know hes making you crying as much as you feel like crying b/c once a guy feels like your in such dire need of him he may take you as weak.  im not telling you to be harsh but girrrl you gotta make him believe you can live your life just fine without him.  once he realizes this he will want to be with you even more.

Good luck!

Answer 7

I don't know why.....this is a very uncomfortable question for me at the moment.....