Why do i dream about him?

Question

my cousin who died in january is in alot of my dreams, they are nice dreams and soooo real i can see his face.

i miss him loads and i enjoy these dreams but i wonder why i dream about him does it mean anything?

Answer 1

his ghost has entered your dreams because he wants to make you happy, but he has unresolved issues, he will reveal them to you in due course.

Answer 2

don't worry, with the passes of time everything is forgettable.

Answer 3

I am very sorry about your loss, that is a hard thing to experience and recover from.

Such dreams are about closure.

They come to you as an assurance that it's 'OK' - as odd as that may sound.  The message is one of peace, that your cousin is gone from any suffering or burden that may have been imposed in this life.

Appearing to you in this fashion is then a reassurance of well-being.  Even though dead and not present in our world, he exists at least in your heart - and peacefully so.  He is also vividly real - and whether such dreams come from beyond the mind out of some spiritual reality or not is not something we can prove either way.  That's up to your personal views and beliefs, but either way - it is real enough to you in a special way.  Many ascribe these feelings and sense that a loved one is truly healthier and happier now than in the last moments on earth.

In your case, it sounds like these pleasant, recurring dreams are helping you to gently let go of this beloved cousin and allow him to rest easily in your heart and mind.  That is a natural and good thing - we have to deal with the realities and pain of loss and missing those who have died, but we need the comfort that attaches in this way.

In this way you can think of taking the dreams as a gift of healing that will allow you to move on as your cousin would want you too and let the fond memories replace any hurts or pain over time.  

I hope some of this is helpful and again, I am sorry for your loss.

All the best to you.

Answer 4

Dreams are an easy way for our loved ones who have passed over to make contact. Some will have been actual visits from him. Our spirit visits the astral plane while we sleep and we can meet loved ones there.  Continue to enjoy them,  when he feels you are becoming easier about his passing they will become less frequent, or at least you will remember them less frequently. Rest assured he is fine and knows what is going on in your life.

Answer 5

maybe you miss him and has left a huge impact on you and you're really  not noticing it