Why do i dream that....?

Question

Ok so here is the situation, my friend is cheating on her boyfriend, this is not the first time she has cheated on a guy. She says that she only wants to talk to or go somewhere with her boyfriend when it is convenient for her. She would rather spend time with the other guy cause he is older and has money.

Now here is what is happening, EVERYTIME i talk to her, even if i just say something like "hey, whats up" and thats all i say to her, i have a dream that my boyfriend cheats on me.

It happens every single time i talk to her.

Why is this happening? What can i do to stop it? I know he isnt cheating on me. I really want to stop having those dreams, but in order to do that i have to stop talkin to her cause i only have them after i talk to her.

Please some one tell me why this is happening or give advice. Serious, mature answers only.

Answer 1

To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others. This notion may stem from issues of trust or self-esteem.