Why do i feel guilty after masturbating ?

Question

I know its a disgusting subject and i hate the fact that i do it but every other boy does it am i the only one that feels guilty about it or am i just being stupid i am not dirty minded or anything like that and i would never try and get a girl into bed with me

Answer 1

If you think it's guilty, then take a break for a while and do it again.

Theres nothing to be ashamed/guilty about!  

Answer 2

Why do you hate it?  Everyone does it!

Is this a religious objection, by any chance?

If so, then  that's your answer.  

Answer 3

il trade ya, i cant stop il go like 5 times a day

Answer 4

It's perfectly normal to m********e. Honestly, nearly every dude masturbates.

It doesn't make you dity-minded or disgusting, it's just nature. (What? Yeah, so it's not s*x. It's still normal for a human to m********e.)

"Go to change their diapers, they make a grab for their p***s and hang on for dear life."

Haha, I just had to laugh at that.

Answer 5

dont feel guilty about ur little guys dying!

get on with it! and to answer ur question directly, yes ur being stupid :P

Answer 6

It isn't a disgusting subject, and you shouldn't hate the fact that you do it. Masturbation is normal and very good for your health. There is probably something in your upbringing that is causing you to feel guilty.

PLEASE read this, and be sure to read it all through, as the beginning is a bit confusing:

http://www.jackinworld.com/bios/bio233.h...

Health benefits - this is from Wikipedia:

"A 1997 study in the British Medical Journal based upon 918 men age 45-59 found that after a ten year follow-up, men who had fewer orgasms were twice as likely to die of any cause as those having two or more orgasms a week."

Other studies have found that frequent masturbation reduces the risk of prostate cancer - a doctor who studied the evidence recommended that teenagers m********e at least six times a week.

Try to start from the point of view that s*x is one of the most beautiful and exciting aspects of human life. It can be used well or badly - within a happy marriage it is sublime; with a prostitute it's sordid. Masturbation is a GOOD use of s*x!

When I had my first serious girlfriend I was glad that masturbation had helped me understand my own sexuality; otherwise the sensations would have been overwhelming and confusing.

It's also fun - no need to be too serious about it. I do hope this helps - if you want to discuss further by email, click on my name to get to my Profile, and you can email me anonymously via Yahoo Answers

Answer 7

Cause you came too fast..

Answer 8

Nothing wrong or unnatural with having solo s*x. You are just enjoying your own body and nothing wrong with that.  

Answer 9

I never felt guilty

Answer 10

dont!

Answer 11

Male Masturbation

    Little baby boys "play with themselves" instinctively, just like they suck their toes. Go to change their diapers, they make a grab for their p***s and hang on for dear life. It is not dirty, it is not sexual, it just feels good, it is comforting, reassuring, all is well with the world.

    Pretty soon, little boys are getting messages from their parents: "Don't do that, you'll hurt yourself, you'll get an infection, you'll go blind, you'll be crazy, you'll wear it out, it will fall off, you'll turn 'q***r' or you will reduce your sperm count so you will be 'shooting blanks'."

    Some parents are afraid their little guy will become addicted to s*x and others believe it is sinful. Most little boys m********e in spite of parental injunctions. Psychologists are convinced that these ideas instill fear, guilt and shame into a harmless activity.

    Defined as autoeroticism, masturbation is self-pleasuring to the point of o****m/ejaculation. Although males may employ a vibrator or *********, most masturbation is manual stimulation in conjunction with a sexual fantasy. It is impossible to m********e without fantasy.

    Until a male has gone through puberty, he will not ejaculate when he masturbates, but about age 12-14, he will discover that he can "shoot" or "***". For guys, this is the symbol of manhood, equivalent to a girl's first menstrual period.

    Most teenage males will m********e about once a day, some much more than others. There is no "normal" - it varies with surrounding stimulation, stress of exams, boredom, amount of s*x with a partner, and individual s*x drive and desire plus the opportunity. Guys worry, "How much is too much?" Don't worry. You will not hurt yourself, you are not a pervert. Your body will dictate and eventually your brain will be willing but the body weak.

    By the time a male is in his 20's, he will be an expert on his own sexual responses - he will know what works for him, he has developed a repertoire of effective sexual fantasies, how to grip his p***s, how much pressure and lubrication, he will become aware of the pre-ejaculatory sensations.

    Many males are convinced that once you get into a relationship with a partner, you will not practice solitary masturbation anymore. This is terribly wrong. If his partner is ill, absent, pregnant or just does not have as high a s*x drive as he does, he will m********e in addition to his partner s*x.

    Interesting research by Masters and Johnson way back in the 1980's - they found that the level of sexual arousal, sexual excitement was higher with solitary masturbation than it was with sexual intercourse with a partner. When you are all by yourself, you can flip into a guilt free sexual fantasy, do what you want when you want, how you want. You don't have to worry about pleasing your partner, hurting your partner, worrying about birth control or diseases or parents, you don't have to hurry up or wait for partner, you are on you own. What is missing with solitary masturbation is the loving, the hugging the kissing and caressing and the relationship connection.

    There is a common quote: 99% of males m********e regularly and the other 1% are liars. Now, I don't believe that line. There are some guys, brought up in some families, cultures or religions, that have been taught that masturbation is morally wrong, it is a sin. So they may try it once, didn't enjoy it, felt guilty, and ashamed and may never do it again, and that's ok too. He will have a whole lot of wet dreams and be just fine.

    What is interesting is the general acceptance that masturbation is normal, natural and healthy, and that both males AND females can do it very well….thank you.

Answer 12

IT SIMPLY MEANS THAT YOUR A g*y IF YOU DONT WANNA GET LAID WITH A GIRL..!

AND I GUESS YOUR DESTINED TO BE A PRIEST..! (LOL..!)

Answer 13

plz tell us your like 5! its not bad at all, if you dont do it, youll hav wet dreams at night and wake up with all ur s***n in your huggies. Plus, what is this bout "i would never try and get a girl into bed with me" like i said, PLZ TELL US YOUR 5!

Answer 14

Because you realize deep down inside you don't want to m********e anymore , you want the real thing... plus you could've spent an hour or two not sitting on the computer watching p**n whacking off to do something better with yourself like reading a book, or going for a nice long run, or talking to girls.  

Answer 15

Lots of us guys have gone through this guilt feeling when we were teens . But masturbation is a natural urge and all young guys m********e at least once per day

You should not feel guilty about it because it is your own body and it can help release stress and show you how the body actually works  

Answer 16

Because you've been told it's wrong, and it isn't.  It's not a disgusting subject and that's part of your problem.

Everyone does it man, knock yourself out (no pun intended, well maybe not).

Answer 17

YOU FEEL GUILTY BECAUSE YOU THINK ITS BAD WORK.IT IS VERY NORMAL THING AND EVERY BOY m********e DAILY.DO'NT WORRY TRUST ME.ENJOY THE ORGASAM AND AND STICK TO YOUR DAILY WORKS