Why do i feel like my husband doesnt love me?

Question

my husband and i have been having some small issues that are not a big deal . but i feel like he is getting frustrated and im not sure what to do? i love him very much so but i am not perfect as neither is he. he does things that also frustrate me but i dont let them control my love for him please help! why are men different?

Answer 1

because we think with our p***s.  Sometimes, when we get hot and sweaty down there, our judgment gets a little clouded.  It will pass though.  Good luck to you.

Answer 2

1) Nobody is perfect,

2) everybody is different, is they way we are.

3) I love being myself

But to help make a marriage work it takes honesty and communication. Talking about things helps a lot, and if you do not get things in the open, nothing will ever change.

Answer 3

Women are from Venus - Men are from Mars.

Fundamentally we are different in most things apart from s*x, if you cant learn to tolerate each other then there is little hope for your marriage.

Try to end the day with great loving, that usually wipes out the days niggles.

good luck

Answer 4

Men and women view fighting in very different ways.  For a man it is usually fight and then forget about it.  However, when there are on going small problems they will tend to feel like suddenly it is a constant thing that they can't forget.  When that feeling sets in they the feel like they have some how failed the relationship and start to pull back.  It isn't that he doesn't love you, it is that he is pulling back because he feels like he is some how failing you and the relationship.  The key is to talk to him and make it clear that while there are issues that the two of you need to work through, it doesn't change the fact that you love him and that you want to be with him.  Tell him you have noticed his pulling back and that you don't want that at all.

Answer 5

they just are.

you dont say how old you are, and that makes a difference too.

i'd get it fixed though before the small things turn into big things, that cant be fixed, TALK to him until you get him to open up, or suggest counseling together.

Answer 6

i know exactly how you feel and i can only tell you that there is no solution to this... or at least not the one that fits each situation. you just need to find what makes your husband tick and just be patient... that is all advice i can give you.

men are different, but that is why it is interesting. look at it as a game, not a problem.