Why do i feel like such a girl? i am a 45 year old male according to my flesh.?

Question

i hate my body, don't care for s*x as a male and don't care for "male things" and i hate erections though i do get them. i do however love lingerie, make up and all things girl can some one shed some light please.

Answer 1

sounds like you could be genderly challenged

Answer 2

Pray to God.  

Answer 3

first things first: this is normal.

have you ever pursued your likes and tried wearing the lingerie/make up? if so, how did you feel? did you feel "pretty"/better about yourself? did you feel comfortable? these are some questions you should ask yourself. you should also try acting on what just "feels" normal/right to you. find out what you like without anything holding you back and act on it.

could is just be a mid-life experience? have you felt this way for a while?

are you in a relationship?

i hope to better answer your question with some of the questions i've asked you answered..

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ps-IGNORE ANY RUDE ANSWERS TO YOUR QUESTION! some people are CLOSE MINDED and will not help you at all. instead, they will make you feel awful and even more uncomfortable/uncertain than you may already feel.

i would try googling transgender sexuality, transgender behavior, etc.  You can google this question and find stories about males who have undergone the surgeries/make overs to become female and what helped them make their decision, how they felt to make them want to change their s*x, and also some generic answers to this question.  feel confident that you are not the only one going through this life altering question/phase/experience. do what makes you feel good about yourself. do what makes you like your body. do what makes you happy. try not to second guess things too much.

if you wear lingerie or girly clothing items and it makes you feel good/happy/whole, continue doing so. your happiness is of the up most importance.  you just need to find where you stand and try to act on some of your wants/desires/urges for girly things. see where it takes you. ignore ignorance.