Why do i feel like this about Change?

Question

i have Asperger's, and during the summer hols i've been hating the 'go with the flow' thing that seems to happen every summer. i just can't wait intill i get back to school into a set timetable again.

but i ask why do i feel like this for, would people like a 'go with the flow' or am i just so strange that i love being in a set routine.

Answer 1

Most people feel comfortable in a routine.

But Change is inevitable, except from a vending machine...

Answer 2

routine makes u vulnerable, all to predictable.........be erratic.

Answer 3

there r four types of personalties; sanguine, phlegmatic, cholleric, meloncollie.

sanguines main characteristic is "fun loving". phlegmatic- easy going and adversitile. cholleric (you)- contolling and good leaders. meloncollie (also you)- perfectionist

the sanguines go with the flow cause its fun, phlegmatics cause they r adversitile, chollerics like to be in control of their own lives and they don't know where the flow is taking them and so they (you) find it hard and unlikable to adjust to that. meloncollies are perfectonists and the flow isn't really perfect but school has every thing on a time table which makes ur life "perfect"

ur good qualities i'm guessing is organisized always got home work done, and likes to be clean (i'm probably wrong, this is just a guess of your personality you might have a lot of another personality in u this is just for the cholleric "stereotype") ur bad qualities would be contolling of other people, slightly depressed when ur surroundings are a mess, and unsocial and unsympathetic (just going along the book here)

Answer 4

You sound so much like my daughter who has Asperger's. She hates school but is finding the summer holidays so difficult to deal with. We are all enjoying the lack of routine and just doing what we feel like when we feel like doing it. She needs her days planned well in advance and can't do with us suddenly deciding to go to the beach for a day out. You are not at all strange, I know my daughter likes the structure and routine of a school day as it gives her security and she knows just what is going to happen next. After 5 weeks of being on holiday I have noticed both my other children and myself are ready to get back into a normal routine, so even the rest of us like our normal routines most of the time. You are not in the least bit strange, in fact you sound just like everyone else. Good luck in school.

Answer 5

You find security in routine, you get anxious if things are changed without proper warning that its going to happen.