Why do i feel like this especially the day before school? (i need an answer SOON!)?

Question

im 13 years old, 5'5'', 140 lbs. ive always been the fat kid and now im thinner. i have biggish b***s, and sort of an hourglass figure. my stomach is kinda flat, and not big, but it just feels fat. and my thighs are big. so today i went shopping for 1st day of school outfit. i bought a jean skirt, silver metallic leggings, and a really cute top. a few minutes ago i tried it on and i just felt really fat and gross. i kind of broke down after critisizing myself for like 20 minutes and cried my eyes out for like another 20 minutes. i just feel really bad about myself. i felt fine all summer until like right now. i cant figure it out!!! i just dont know what to do, cuz i have no idea what to wear now!!! i just need suggestions on how stop hating on myself, and figuring out what to wear!!! it wuld be great to have a few answers in the next two hours because i need to sleep after that.

thankx in advance!!!!

Answer 1

Hormones. Don't worry, it happens to EVERYONE at one point of their life. Just do something about it, and keep your confidence high. or else you will never survive in school always critisizing yourself.

Answer 2

its because u have low self esteem and just because u lost the weight doesnt mean u lost ur problems inside...u need to work on that ...u should wear the outfit u bought...ul look great in it in pretty sure...u just havent worked out the inner issues u had when u were the larger kid...u shoudlnt talk urself down either...u should tell ur self that u are big and beautiful...u should watch phat girls...with monique...i think that ul relate a lot to her inner struggle issues even tho its not the outer now and laugh while u see that it can get better inside, it just takes a while and self admitance and acceptance of urself...i dunno i use to struggle with body issues a lot, infact there was a point that i got slim because i wasnt eating...so i basically turned a mild anorexic and i use  to talk myself down like u did...now im a lot better i still have my moments and it is a huge struggle sometimes because i start feeling down about how i look...but now i usually see myself as beautiful at my fluctuating sizes...i dunno i liked that movie because i could relate to how she was feeling ...i like it because of that...but u needa talk it out and seriously, get naked in a miror in the morning shower and look at all the s**y and great lookingthigns on ur body...i usually tell myself, d**n now that is a nice waist, u have the bomb skin and seriously look at ur butt, it is so cute and then look at my really pretty eyes and lips, u have some great pout and then i smile either forcibly or because i feel happy....at least i say it inside i mean. yeah hehe.

Answer 3

Put on your favorite pair of jeans, tighter is better cuz they will make your thighs look skinnier and your butt look cute!

Then try on every single top in your closet (or your fave 5) and see what looks best on you.

shorts and jean skirts are risky if you aren't sure about your thighs, so they are very likely to give you an emotional breakdown if you are worried...

Answer 4

its nothing but teenage drama.

Kids today put so much emphasis on how they look at school, so you feel pressure to fit in, and look a certain way.

Kids today make school about fashion and not learning, its ridiculous.

Just remember, when you finally grow up, you'll realize all this feeling bad about yourself, was for nothing. DONT go by what your friends or others look like either.  Just be healthy and learn all you can. Be yourself. You'll be fine.

Answer 5

first off you have to be confident in yourself or no matter what you wear wont look good and  start walking everynight or play sports even if you have a good body it will boost your selfesteem

Answer 6

Just do 600 sit ups a day, that's what I did when i was fat.

Don't go here

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Answer 7

Do you care what other people where to school?

Then why should you care?

140 pounds is not really that fat. It's average. Just eat healthy, and dont where to tight of clothes.

The clothes you picked out probably look fine, maybe ur just being paranoid. It happens to alot of ppl.

Answer 8

you weigh less than me by 4 lbs and I'm going in to J.R. high tomorrow i wasn't the fattiest and i slimmed down over the summer so now i think i weigh about 120lbs (i worked my butt off w/ cheer leading and exercise and not eating junk )just  wear something that looks slimming on you

Answer 9

Be Yourself!! fat or thin.

Sounds like you are in great shape.  Walk like the star that you are.

Hold your head up, use your brain, and remember the skinny girls have problems like everyone else.  If you want to be thin, then get that way, if not, for heavens sake, Love the Skin you are In.  big time!!

Answer 10

I'm guessing PMS.

Answer 11

try not to worry about what the other girls think i did that way to much last year and i didn't get me any were and i lost some "friends" in the process. Just remember to do some sort of exercise every day.I run on the tredmill for 30 mins every day and that seems to do the trick. As for what to wear i would just put on some jeans and a hot shirt and it will be fine, trust me dont try to look all cool it wont get you anywere, and your outfit cant be any worse then mine i have to wear a uniform, yuck!!!:P