Why do i feel so miserable when I'm not in a relationship with a man?

Question

It doesn't seem under my control. I broke up with the my ex because I wasn't ready for a relationship and I don't have the time for it and he was treating bad and I wasn't in love with him anymore. That means I broke up with him because I DO NOT want a relationship. Yet, I feel so miserable not being with a man. I just can't help it, it's like PMS. I'm I the only one? and why does that happen?

Answer 1

ur hooked on manjuice

Answer 2

:O I have the same problem . ... I think it is cause we are so use to the fact that we have someone then when they aren't their we have no one to goto and it is like an empty like feeling. I am gonna look back to your answer cause I feel the EXACT same way.  

Answer 3

People feel the need to belong, and don't like feeling like they are alone, which is understandable, and being with someone makes us feel good because we need to belong to someone.

I personally think it happens because some of us aren't used to being alone and need to be around people.

Answer 4

It could be that you don't feel "whole" by yourself. You need to work on this or you will never be happy... by yourself or with someone. No other person can make you whole. And the worst relationships are those when 2 people look to the other to "complete" them.  You're already complete. You simply need to learn to enjoy being just by yourself... enjoying your own company... finding fulfillment when you're alone, or at least not in a relationship. Good luck!