:( Why do i feel this way. I Need a boost of my self esteem.

Question

All the girls i know are so much prettier than me. They have long real hair, they are all so tan, do their makeup perfectly, and NO acne,.

but then you look at me, and i have shorter hair, and acne. It sucks.

It makes me feel so miserable. It makes me dislike myself every day.

Its summer right now, so i've been trying to get rid of acne, and grow my hair before school starts again, since its my senior year. i want to be beautiful ! Like all the other girls in the world.

I don't know how to be happy with myself.

and i feel over weight,

im 5'0

123 pounds

with huge b***s.

this sucks so much. I need some self esteem boosters ?

anyone, please help.

Im tired of not liking to look at myself in the mirror.

:(!

Answer 1

you need to stop looking at all the other girls and start looking for the guy that can't stop looking at you ;)

I'm sure you have a guy friend or two that is all over you. Maybe you need to look beyond their body types and find the person underneath in order to make yourself happy.

Answer 2

Being a guy, I can tell you that not all of us go for the stereotypical hot girls.  Really, being too tan turns me off and I can't stand makeup.  Beauty isn't just about physical appearance anyway; there's a personality segment to it as well.  If someone likes the way you act, they'll like the way you look more than usual.

Just focus on being yourself and finding people who like you for that.  Don't worry about people who are all about looks; most of them aren't very much fun to be friends with anyway.

Answer 3

well as wierd as this sounds u are beautiful besides just because u dont look like the other girls doesnt mean ur ugly and iof u think ur fat  just think im not so skinny but im not fat and either r u we are normal and we have more flavor and more curve dont worry u r beautiful and im not a L*****n or a guy just to clear that up

Answer 4

How about a makeover? You should be happy with what you have. You have what others pay to have enhanced. Don't feel that way about yourself , with the image in the world today, its a must to be a certain size, weight and height...That's not true, we're all created individually for a reason!  There are many at home remedies you can do to boost your self esteem. if you have friends invite them over for a sleepover and plan to do makeovers and exchange beauty tips. If you don't have any friends(like me) then you can do it all alone. Theres weave, theres butt pads, theres makeup ....anything you wanna change about yourself is just a store away.  Also you are not overweight ... I bet you look like one of the olsen girls... but 123...is not overweight.. maybe statistically yeah... but in reality no!!! you loose any more weight you'll be skin and bones...Thick is in....you already have the b***s now you need to put a lil junk in your trunk...just kidding! Just wanted to make ya laugh! I am a counselor for Teens, Who's battling issues at home,school with their peers or within their self.... I hope I have been helpful to you. Email me whenever you like or need to! [e-mail]  

Answer 5

For your apearane

Drink loads of water, cleanse and scrub your face with stuff like (neutrogena, garnier or loreal), you can ask a pharmacist or skin nurse for advice on this. Do not eat fried foods and fizzy drinks. These oils and sugars will most likely find a way out through your face. Lemon is a natural anti-oxidant/cleanser.

As for your hair there is always extensions and weaves, buy a hair mag and chech out what styles will suit you and show your face off. Long hair does not suit everyone. if someone had a tiny head with loads of long hair on it i think that is scary!!

For your weight issues we all have them what to do is find clothes that compliment your body shape. If your are short do not wear long frumpy skirts they wont do much for your body. to make your self feel good take up a sport go swimming or learn how to and try skipping or running this way you know you are trying to make your self look good.

but eventually you wil have to look inside you find your best qualities and love your self before you can convince us to like who we see. because even if we do and you dont it is pointless.

Bigger b***s xx the best. do not be ashamed of those.

Answer 6

I am an older woman.  Trust me.  Rejoice in your differences.  That said, try Neutrogena for your acne.  If that won't work, you need to see a Dermatologist.  Makeup on eyes only until the acne goes away.  Most makeups clog pores which only gives you more acne.  

Then find a hairstyle that goes with the shape of your face.  There are all sorts of programs on the Internet that allow you to upload a picture and try different styles.  I've never looked good with long hair.

As for your weight and b*****s - most men like women with big b*****s and curves.  You are a tad overweight, but 5-10 lbs is no big deal. Don't let yourself gain more though.  

Play up your best feature.  If your eyes are pretty, enhance them.  

Lastly - no one likes to see themselves in the mirror.  You always see flaws.  Ask your best friend for advice.  

Answer 7

i wish i could give you a big hug!! stop worrying about the 'pretty' girls who says they are their probly all fake and nasty people you sound real and like a nice person... just love you it sounds hard but really look deeper than the mirror and just try to feel good on the inside itl show through..  

Answer 8

the worst critic is YOURSELF. stop being so harsh on yourself!

be happy the way you are :) you are probably very beautiful and gorgeous..

and all those other girls with "perfect hair and bodies"

they spend hours each day trying to achieve that look

you would be shocked at how different they look without makeup

and the suckiest part is that they HAVE to wear makeup every day in order to look that "hot" or else everyone will be in total shock if they saw how they really looked.

and honestly, they are really.... really... self.. conscious.

people tell me that i'm "pretty" and i have perfect makeup and whatever

but i never believe any of them

because honestly without makeup i look horrible

i used to cry whenever i looked in the mirror.. it was that bad

so now i use makeup as a mask

i have horrible acne too!!

DONT DO THAT. you'll regret it

let your personality shine through..