Why do i get sad and throw up when i realize that my babies r growing up and wont ever be babies again???

Question

Im fine sometimes until I realize how much they are growing and then I start getting anxiety about the fact that they will never be babies again. I cry, n then I throw up n feel like that for a while then I snap out of it n it doesnt bother me at all, until the next time I have an "episode." Is anyone else like this? How do you deal with it? Its bad enough that I cant even get rid of any of their baby clothes I feel to sad to do it. I still have their swings and all of their baby clothes. Theyr triplets by the way and will be 2 in September. And when theyr birthday is near I start to feel like this also! I know this has to be some kind of disorder but I NEED to know how to control and deal with it because it controls my life!

Answer 1

Honey , it gets worse when they graduate from High School  and leave for college.  And if they are healthy adults this will happen....Don't overprotect them but allow then to grow and be who they are. Encourage them to be the best at whatever they do..It is exciting to watch them change and grow. To see their individual gifts and talents.

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Answer 2

I don't have kids, but I may have an explanation for you...your purpose in life is to be needed, and babies and small children need you-they cannot survive without you....once they grow up, they won't need you anymore..and you are afraid that your purpose in life will end, leaving you alone, and depressed. you may feel that babies give you unconditional love that no one else can, when they grow up, you might be afraid of losing that love. Right now you are their world, and sounds like they are yours, but after they grow up, their world has to get bigger, and so does yours..I don't have a solution for you, I just may know the cause........accept reality, don't fight it..relax.

Answer 3

They are only two years old, you have years and years yet to look after them, in fact i would say 15yrs before you need worry about them leaving you, so stop fretting and enjoy them.

I think you may be suffering from baby blues, a mild condition that some people get after giving birth, although you have been so busy with 3 of them you havent had time to notice until now. see your doctor if you think you are depressed.

ps  the throwing up is NOT normal, are you pregnant again, see your doctor