Why do i get scared when i think about kissing him?

Question

Ok so here it is, there is this guy at school. We are both in the same grade [8th], but no classes together. We always talk on Yahoo! Messenger and MySpace and we have already told eachother that we like eachother. I get soo scared when i talk to him in person though. We have already told eachother soo much on yahoo, but the words don't seem to come out in person. My cousin says that it gets better when you kiss a guy.. bc u kno them more. I have never kissed a guy..and i want him to be my first and he knows that. He has made out before and he asked me to make out with him if we went to the movies.

So i just need some kissing advice and should we date?

Thanx ALOT--means alot!! :]

Answer 1

Since it will be your first. I think you should date him first, don't kiss him yet. [He's not forcing you so it's okay.] If you're really sure he's the one you want to give your first kiss to then go ahead, kiss him.

And when you do, don't think of too much things. It's normal to get scared because this is new to you and I'm sure you wouldn't want him to think that you're a bad kisser. That's what most girls fear. Relax, don't be so conscious and go with the flow. :)

Answer 2

you just  get nervous

if you can talk a lot like that over messenger

try to talked in person

&+ goin to the movies is great because you don't really have to talk much

either your kissing or watching the movie.

when you kiss him,

start of slow.

you may want to just follow his lead

its not hard just go with the flow

and maybe suck or nibble on his lip a little bit

oh and whne you kiss him try haveing your hand lightly touch and brush his cheek (i think that's cute).

but yea just go with it, act natural

and have fun :]  

Answer 3

You'll be okay just follow what he does and you'll get it

If you really like each other, go out

Answer 4

just kiss him with your natural manner

Answer 5

well i think this is normal.like the first time for usually anything.for u to be concerned about it  means u have respect for it.trust me when i say this when the time is right it will happen.after it happens (the kiss)you will probably say what was i waiting for,or that was easy.i hope it is special for you.i am glad he is not pressure ing you though.now if he is not aggressive you might have to make the first move.just because he doesn't dont mean that he dont want to.he may have some of the same feelings you are feeling.and when all else fails just be honest with him tell him what you want and talk about it.

Answer 6

i think the internet has made it alil harder for you guys to talk in person... on the net you can say whatever you want.. and they dont have too see you or see how u really feel...

if you guys like each other.. push urself to trust, and to talk in person... get to know each other out of the cyber world... then go into thinking about kissing... hold his hand.. my gosh u have all the time in the world.. kissing wont help the issue of uncomfortable!

be yourself... and just talk... face to face... hand in hand.. make urself comfortable around him... then take it further.

Answer 7

When u do it SHUT YOUR EYES and go in slowly :) The first time i did it i was so nervous. When we first did it, i went in so fast we banged heads and sort of laughed it off. Then the second time i had my eyes open and i burst out laughing. Yours cant be any worse then that surely :D So yee in nice and slow, and shut your eyes :) Have a mint for after as well... they dont taste as nice as they look sometimes. Bleurgh. Glad hes dumped ;)  

Answer 8

Yeah you should go out with him, and hang out a lot, and then you won't be so nervous around him. And when your with him, don't plan anything, and don't let him plan anything, just go with the flow and have fun.