Why do i hate my life so much? i should be enjoying life!!!?

Question

i no im only 16 but seriously i should be enjoying life and i am not i hate my life....i left school early from being bullied so i have no gcses and im finding it real hard to get a job i went to college but it wasnt my thing so now im just stuck at home most days feeling really low just lying in bed ,,,i always feel low,,,,nothing ever goes right for me and it doesnt help with my sister calling me dumb and other names under the sun,,,,somtimes i feel so low i wanna do something very stupid but im not that sort of person also i dont mave many friends so i dont get out much and tend to feel lonely the only time i go out is weekends with my cuz for a few drinks...also ive been told i have a good singing voice and ive been to 2 audtions and got rejected so thats made me feel worse but i no i am a good singer i dont understand why things go so wrong!!! i also get real nervous sometimes thats probs also why i dont have a bf cuz im too afrid to speak to people im scared they judge me!

Answer 1

You should set your self Goals in life 1 thing at a time maybe?

you should try get some Self confidence i know this cus i am partly the same, maybe if you had confidence in your self you would build the corrage and try singin again dont take No for an answer follow your heart with me its eye contact.. i cant rly look at people and have a good convo but dont ever do anything stupid try and build some confidence and get your life back on track college and gcses aint rly important as long as your happy =) hope everything works out x

Answer 2

your only 16 so you realllly need to try again, you cant just give up on school. if you get bullied droping out is not the way to handle it. you need to go to a diffrent school somewhere else if you really want to start over. go to collage far away from home and dont be afriad to let people in your life and dont be to shy take chances or else those chances willl go to other people and you will be stock with nothing

Answer 3

dont worry about things. this is your life and you only live once. life is hard so be sure to live it to its fullest. enjoy your self foreal. take care muah

Answer 4

it sounds like you know what you have to do .you hate life because of your own decisions

Answer 5

OK.  Whatever you are doing, stop it.  Start over.  Life is nothing more than a series of new starts.  It's time for you to start over.  Sit down are write out the things that are wrong.  Take one at a time and change them.  I guarantee things will start changing for you.  You need to enjoy life.  You deserve it.  Only you can change things and now is the best time to get started.   Go for it!

Answer 6

Just stay up, Don't let this life or anyone get the best of you. Here's a tip , be confident no matter how low you feel and remember that no one can bring you down,only you can do that.

Answer 7

You just have to realize that you are a wonderful person and that anyone who is around you should feel grateful. Get a little confidence my dear and everything will be fine. It sounds like you've been pushed around all your life, so now you need to stand tough and stand proud to be who you are. I don't have many friends either, I lost most of mine to life changing, some went to college, others work for the man and I run my own small business so I don't get out much either. Take things slow, and if you can't get out of bed (i know the feeling) try to push yourself to go for a walk, enjoy a sunny day, walking is truly serenity at its best. Remember stay confident and be proud to be who you are, you sound like an awesome person. Good luck with the singing and remember just because you got rejected doesnt mean you should stop trying. Sometimes its best to just sing because you want too, not because your getting paid too. Take care...

Answer 8

Its okay my first advice is study your hardest because in the long run your going to be the millonair it you do good in school!!!!

Okay if you have more time also just try to talk to people a little bit and dont go to the mean people try someone who seems nice and dont juge them by how they look either

Hope i helped

~LEENA~

Answer 9

YAY!!!!!!!!! Hooray for me!!!!!!!!!!!! I said before I opened this that you'd be 16!!! Correct!!!!!!!!!!!

This is a **** age...lots of kids are like you, halfway between kid and adult. Not a good place to be. Think about a career...not necessarily in singing, too competitive. Look in at you local job centre...do they have apprenticeships you'd like? You will sure as h**l not find the answer to your sadness in bed though! Go out and take life by the throat!!! Even the careers advice peeps at school could perhaps help you, I'm sure if you asked them for info they'd point you in the right direction...

Answer 10

you yourself say you are a good singer........and you have failed only 2 auditions.I will give you one real life example.

mr.amitabh bacchan,they call hin BIG B in indian film indusry,number one actor and still going strong after 38 years in film world,he is about 60 something,

WHEN HE IN HIS YOUNGER DAYS TRIED TO BECOME AN ACTOR,GOING FROM PLACES TO PLACES AND MEETING ALL KINDS OF PEOPLE CONNECTED WITH FILM INDUSRY,HE WAS TOLD TO GO BACK FROM WHERE HE HAS COME BECAUSE THEY INFORMED HIM THAT HIS NOSE WAS LOOKING LIKE A HORSE,BUT HE DID NOT GOT DEPRESSED AND WENT ON AND ON AND LOOK...TODAY HE IS NUMBER ONE IN INDIAN FILM INDUSRY.

Dont think TOO much....sing and sing and sing...........go on giving auditions....and one day you will be there on the top..:-)

Answer 11

Everything will just be fine, why don't you take up a Hobby,something you really like to do and really get into it....Maybe that will get your mind off of things........

ANNA

Answer 12

Ooowe, I know what you mean with the bullying. I also am 16 and I am bullied horribly, many times I have wanted to drop out but I didn't because I don't want these a******s to mess up my future. And I'm just too weird for people so I'm a loner. And I know what you mean about rejection, I love to write and think I am a pretty good writer but every contest I enter, I lose! I know that I should be enjoying life too but I'm not and its so frustrating, I feel you on that.