Why do i keep crying over my boyfriends and what do i do cause we stay far from each other and i have his son?

Question

basically we have a 1 month old child together i stay all the way in victorville and he stay in la and everytime we see each other we have fun and everything and then after i leave and come back home he does i start crying what does that mean and why am i soo stress over

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Answer 1

you had a kid with a guy who doesn't sound committed to either one of you.  what did you expect?  where is this "relationship" going?  is it getting to the marriage stage yet, or are you two just dating?  sit down and have a talk with him.  is he supporting the kid?  you two will be involved with each other for as long as that kid is alive.  sounds like you need to resolve some things.

Answer 2

You may want to consider talking to relatives and friends because keeping that bottled up inside is only damaging.  You have a legal right to child support for the child and there are many services that can help you.

remember it is unfortunate and not your fault but you can deal with it by focusing on the future and building a successful life for yourself.  If you don't have a job, get one.  Ask your parents for help.  Running back to one of your boyfriends isn't going to fix things and may cause more problems in the long run but the father should be involved in the child's life.  Good luck.