Why do i keep dreaming of him ??

Question

lately, i have had quite a lot of dreams of one of my elementary guy buddies and his name is darren. we were the best of friends, but in fifth grade he moved away. and its been quite awhile, and more often i see him around town. and he sees me and stares at me alot. then, even though i dont think of him before i sleep, i dream of him. its gotten to a point where i have had at least three dreams of him in a month and a half. and the dreams of him are really random. like one of my dreams of him, i got a job at a grocery store, and he was working there too, and he was talking to me like nothing happened and he didnt move. and in another dream, i was talking to him in a store parking lot, and i asked him how he was doing. he said that its been **** ever since hes moved, and hes been miserable ever since. then it ended.

do i just miss him !?

why do i keep dreaming of him, though i dont think of him or see him within that time !?

Answer 1

Call him up and ask him out for a burger. You got stars.

Answer 2

well,

there's obviously something important about him...

it's possible that somewhere in your heart you DO miss him,

if there was an important role he played in your life,

he's most likely not going to leave.

self consciously you may be missing the "good ole' days"

or,

just having random memories in your sleep.

Try contacting him,

maybe you could hang out..

you could become friends again...

the dreams then might stop,

or even have more meaning.

Hope this helped ;)

Answer 3

I think you do miss him, and subconsciously I think you would like to continue the friendship that you once had with him

Answer 4

It sounds like your mind is telling you that you have unfinished business with your old school mate.  Perhaps he has been thinking of you also.  Your subconsious may be letting you know it's OK to contact him to talk about 'what's new' or 'what's been on your mind'.  If you don't, you could be missing out on something very important to the two of you.