Why do i keep having these dreams???? please help me!!?

Question

Every night i have dreams about my bf that are really upsetting. Last night I dreamt that I caught him kissing my best friend, which is wierd because I know for a fact that he would never cheat on me - his father is the vicar of our local church and hes religious himself, so he just wouldnt do something like that. But it seemed so real and had me crying for hours after I woke up. Then the day before that I dreamt that he died, I cant remember how but i remember that it was something to do with a boat. When I woke up I had to call him to make sure it was all just a dream and he was still here. Those are just two of many dreams Iv had and theyre starting to worry me. I try to stay wake at night because im afraid that if i sleep il just have another bad dream about him. Im really tired and sick with worry, i just go over and over them in my head. Why do i keep dreaming these things??? And shall i talk to my bf about this are am i just getting it all out of perspective??? PLEASE HELP!!!

Answer 1

It sounds like you feel like you might not be good enough for him-with his dad being the vicar, and all.  Don't worry...some people feel more strongly about outwardly speaking about their religion than others.  It doesn't mean that they're better-or worse!

Since you do go to the same church, I'm guessing that you have the same basic beliefs.  Having a totally different religion can be a problem, but that's not the case with you and him.  Try enjoying the time you spend with him, rather than worrying about the future.

One aside-You mentioned, that, in one of your dreams, he died and it had something to do with a boat?  It kind of reminds me of the Bible stories about the apostles, who were fishermen, until Jesus called them to follow.  Yes, religion can enter your dreams-especially if it has something to do with the dream.  You may feel that he's being "called away" from you!  But, it doesn't sound like you have anything to worry about.  He hasn't said anything, has he?  So, just keep enjoying your time with him...and try to stop worrying!

Answer 2

i think he's cheating on you and maybe its a sign that you should brake up with him

Answer 3

I wouldn't worry about it.  Dreams can have meaning, but it sounds like your brain is working through something and it's using your boyfriend as a stand-in for what's actually happening.  I once had a dream that my boyfriend was really rude to me and hitting on women in front of me, and when I woke up I was incredibly angry.  But you just have to let that go, it's not a big deal.  

If you want to talk to your boyfriend about it, you could just tell him (without making it a big deal), "Hey, I've had these crazy dreams about you lately.  Want to hear?  What do you think they mean?"  But don't be accusatory.  Your dream doesn't mean he's doing anything.

Answer 4

Its very dangerous to be so secure or so sure about what other Human being will do, especially when it comes to matters of the heart, and emotions. You can never be so sure about the human reactions, that it will be call naive.Be careful.

Answer 5

Oh Sweetie...

Its ok...I have a dream book, and so far it has been right on the mark. I have had some dreams similiar to yours.

When we dream that our bf or gf has cheated, its because we are having trust issues, for some reason..and the book says that, usually its not the bf we are having trust issues with, its the person that they are cheating with in the dream. So maybe you need to take a step back, and look at your best friend, and see if there are reasons you dont trust her. It could also, be just insecurtites on your part. Sometimes fear, makes us dream weird stuff.

I almost bet your best friend, loves and adores you, and wouldnt do that to you.

And Its good that you trust your bf, dont lead a life in fear, like some people on here say...I really doubt he would cheat on you.

And when we dream of death, it does not mean that person is going to die....when we dream that someone dies, it means that person is going to go thru some tough times in there life. It doesnt mean death.

I think you should talk to your bf about all  your feelings and let him know your dreams...If he knows then he will know what you are going thru and he can comfort you, and make you and help you feel better.

Communication is the key to any relationship.

If you can, try to get these dreams out of your head..if you can, it will help you to stop having them.

Talk to your bf about them, that may help also....

Pray to God, to help you sleep a peaceful sleep, and get some rest...

its all gonna be ok..

Its just insecurites and fears, in your life....it dont mean that any of this is gonna happen...It wont. I just means you worry about things...and its your fears acting out in your mind.

If you need to chat Im here...

Take care hun, and I will keep ya in my prayers...

Answer 6

youre just afraid of losing him.  at least, thats what it sounds like.

Answer 7

Take a look here to see if you can make some sense of all of this.

http://www.dreammoods.com/dreamdictionar...