Why do i keep waiting for him to mess up?

Question

My fiance is an amazing man, and I've known this since we got together. But lately, I find myself almost waiting for him to mess up. Like i expect him to. And every single time, he doesn't. Times where Im just about positive he will react badly to something, he always knows how to handle it. And that makes me very happy and I cant wait to marry him in a few months, he seems perfect to me.

But why am I waiting for him to mess up so much? I think its kinda wierd... And its especially wierd that hes not lol.. but i guess thats a good thing.

Answer 1

Wow I feel bad for your man. Why do you need to provoke him and test him like that? Get over your insecurities, grow up or leave a good man alone. He deserves better.

Answer 2

I dont think you want to be tied down right now! Subconsciously!!!! I believe, it is YOU who is not ready. You better let him know about this. Because taking this with you into a marriage is not a solemn thing!!!!  

Answer 3

Sounds like your worried its all too good to be true. Don't worry about it, you're just jittery for the big day. Congrats and good luck!

Answer 4

i think you are trying to justify not getting married. if you were ready, truly ready, you would want to help him with mistakes, not blast him!

Answer 5

I think you just want to be sure you made the right decision, and see if there is any good reason for you not to say I DO.

I think you want to know what you might have to deal with in the future, and if it is something you feel confident to handle.

Answer 6

maybe deep in your mind your not ready to get married

Answer 7

Human nature. Even know ya love some one its nice to see that they have flaws too. Not to fear after you marry him you will find some. Good luck with the marriage.

Answer 8

You might be feeling a little doubt. On the outside you might feel like he's the one, but maybe  deep inside you feel like it's going to fast and your just not ready. Talk to him about it.  

Answer 9

i think it might be your normal. In other words, many times you find someone  interesting, somehow situations happen for you to break up.You might think this is too good to be true. I am happier than I have ever been. I know there is something the matter with me being this happy. There might have been some issues when you were younger and you learned that you were not suppose to be happy because something always happen.Allow yourself to be happy. Life is far too short for you not to take risk. Only God knows what is in store for you and your relationship. Live for the moment. The next minute or the next day might not be your. Do not give up on happiness. You are you. Your friends and family have to live for them. You have to concentrate on you and your life.

Answer 10

Wow you are negative.

Answer 11

O THATS A GOOD THING, that he doesnt mess up, hmmm are u sure that ur not feeling he's gunna mess up but that ur doubting ur feelings or soemthing? i dunno lol