Why do i never feel like i am "good enough?"?

Question

i have a beautiful family, we own our home. hardly anyone comes and visits us, hubbys side of family lives here. i try to think im good enough, but when i compare (i know i shouldnt) myself to others, i see everyone else up "high" while im down at the bottom? i just want to see myself "level" with everyone else. im happy with my hubby and family, but i sometimes think we could have gone further in our careers than what we have done so far. serious answers please

Answer 1

be happy love life

Answer 2

Alicia,I think what you are suffering from a low self-esteem.  You seem to see other people as better than you when they aren't.  What you need to do is to stop doing this.  You are just as good as everyone else.  Your husband could help you by giving you some moral support.  Alicia,I know how serious this is.  Don't ever doubt yourself or think what could've been.  I'm sure that in your life,You have leapt over many hurdles to get where you are now.  You and your husband together.  That is a big step right there,Owning your own home.  Perhaps you should plan a get together.  Come up with some ideas for food,For entertainment,For a theme as well.  Invite these people to your home.  You don't sound s****.,So show how not s****. you are.  You don't seem to give yourself credit.  Ask your hubby to give you a compliment every now and then.  You are a wonderful person,You really are.  And yes,There is always a chance for improvement.  If you are really thinking of going further in your career,Look into some courses in College.  Perhaps you may find something else that you might enjoy doing.  Then you won't feel so dull.  Which you aren't,You are not dull.  You are simply amazing.  Alicia,I've gotta get going.  I hope my answer has pleased you.  If not,I'd like to apologize.  My name is David and it's been an honor writing to you tonight.  Have a goodnight and God bless.  Bye for now.