Why do i not feel a sense of enjoyment when fingering myself?

Question

I try, and try, and try. But no pleasure or anything. Anyone know anything to try?

THANKS!! :D

Answer 1

buy a toy it will help

Answer 2

its probably because u need double stimulation!

i am the same way, what u need is to finger or have something inside u! and then play with ur C**t at the same time, and then u will feel pleasure and u will feel an o****m!

some woman dont feel anything when they finger themselves!  

Answer 3

If you are on certain medications that could be the problem.  Things such as antidepressants can have an effect on your s*x life.

Answer 4

Try someone elses finger.....

Answer 5

Its just like ticking yourself. You really cant do it to yourself after a while.  

Answer 6

so far only the faucet works. it feels good but i don't get o****m

Answer 7

Hm, well, first make sure you're wet or becoming wet -- It makes it a h**l of alot easier. Second, assuming you're talking about Clitoral Fingering, don't get frustrated. Be gentle with it, try different sides of it, and be patient. If you do, trust me, it'll be worth it in the long run.

Also, I recommend masturbating with water. This can be done 2 ways:

1. Position your C**t under a running faucet of water in the tub. Make sure it's hitting the C**t, not another area. Then, just relax and breathe deeply until you get the hang of it.

2. Grab a moveablde showerhead, and position the spray of water to your C**t. Try different pressures and temperatures (NEVER TOO HOT OR COLD!!), and find what feels best for you.

Good luck. Hope I helped!  

Answer 8

I don't either, I only get enjoyment when rubbing my C**t.

Answer 9

Even though in a guy, try rubbin your ***** with your palm, then rub it with index and middle up and down when ur wet.  Rub ur C**t circular and then insert finger in u *****. Hope it helps!

Answer 10

i dont like fingering myself either. it dont feel good at all. try someone else that always works for me :)