Why do i push boys away?

Question

ok so whenever i like a boy..then they start liking me i get all nervous. but im fine when they don't like me back. But once they want to be in a relationship i freak and stop liking them. then once they stop liking me and move on i realize how much i want them and like them again but it's to late. what's wrong with me?

Answer 1

get some counseling or study some psychology/relationship stuff to learn about your impulsive patterns and your early childhood where most of this stuff starts.

Answer 2

Don't be so hard on yourself Marissa it's not that you push them away it sounds like you like the hunt sort of, I mean some people like to be in one-on-one relationships  and then there are the ones who like the chase, that is the challenge the  to catch the guy and that is what it sound like you like doing at this point  in your life, you are still young and don't worry you will find the right guy for you soon enough okay, be young and have fun okay......Lil Angel

Answer 3

everyone is a little nervous with their first real relationships. just give them a chance and trust that it will go somewhere.