Why do i still care about them and especially her?

Question

Ok, so last year two of my friends started to go out with each other (He was 14, she was 15 and i was 16). After about 3 months they split up. Myself and her got very very very close, and i was about to ask her out myself, however things changed and we ended up not speaking from around the start of September till the end of December. During that time i still liked her.

I've been going out with another girl since April, and last week, my two friends started going out again, i have no problem with this this time round, but occasionally i just recently have been really jealous even though i have an amazing girlfriend.

Why do i care about this other girl so much still and why am i jealous of them???

(Im now 17, my gf is also 17, wheras the other two are now 15 & 16)

Answer 1

Maybe a little part of you still cares for her.

Answer 2

You are not really jealous. You just feel left out of the friendship. You already said you have a nice girlfriend. Remember that. She is important and you don't want to lose her.

Answer 3

bcuz u still care

Answer 4

well, sometimes when we have feelings for people they are a crush, and we may like them, think they are pretty, or cute, and yea we want to go out with them, but ohwell if it never works out! And then there are some people from the minute we meet them there is just something about them that not only you fall for but also your Heart falls for and in those situations were your heart is involved those kind of feelings dont just go away. I think that even years down the road we can look back at someone who had a place in our heart and still have those feelings for them. So I think that you devolped certain feelings for this girl that may take a lot longer to go away if ever!  But if you have a great girl, and she is good to you  and you are happy, then just try and look at your relationship everyday and remind yourself of that. If it is ever meant to be between the other one then it will work its self out in time.. Just be happy! good luck!

Answer 5

you didnt really get closure