Why do i still want to move to..?

Question

To move to my gf's city although that our relationship seems to end soon? i was planing to move there when we were okay, later, we fought several times but i do still smile whenever i think of going there? i'm 21

Answer 1

women do that to men

Answer 2

You still want to move to be close to your g/f because you have not accepted the obvious fact that she has moved on.  I can understand your feelings but having said that, I must ask you to consider your pride.

On another view, your actions could be consider as "stalking" and that is against the law.  I suggest you reevaluate what you want to do than accept the fact this girl wants nothing to do with you.  Sorry for being blunt but I just want to answer your question honestly.  

Answer 3

Get another girlfriend, and if you still want to move there, then consider it.  I think it's really common to let an ex to dominate your thoughts.  It can lead to stalking but I'm sure that usually it's minor.  For example, some might take the long way home so they can look at the parking lot where the girl or guy works.  Some might hang out somewhere thinking she might happen to walk by.  This will go away.