Why do it end in friendship?

Question

I like a girl and she was the one ( I think ) ..I had past relationships and I never felt so inlove this way to the girl but she told me that she is not attracted to me only impressed and only like me as friend.. in short she dump me.. guys I need ur help.. what should I do? I love her badly..

Answer 1

I'm sorry to hear that. Honestly you can only do so much if you've already bluntly said that you're interested and they're not willing to give it a chance. I don't know if you've been friends for a while or just met, but if you've just met, maybe just hangout more as friends. She'll get to know you a lot better and she'll end up realizing that she really likes you too. Sometimes it can be scary starting a relationship with someone you don't know very well/aren't yet comfortable with.

If you've been friends for a while it's possible that she's afraid a relationship will ruin what you two already have. It's pretty common for breakup to happen, and when they're with your best friend or a close friend, it can be difficult knowing when to end it/how to end it/deciding what will happen after the break up. Except for a few cases/reasons for breakup, it's generally pretty uncomfortable afterward. This obviously worsens the longer the relationship lasts. I'm not saying it couldn't work though, which is why a POTENTIAL breakup with a friend is almost worth it if it can last, and if you guys are meant to be together.

Either way I would take a couple steps back. Obviously you can't really change how you feel about her, but instead of making things awkward by pressuring her or continuing to mention it or something, just stay friends for now, go hangout "as friends," go to the movies etc. You'll get to know each other more and she'll be reminded of how great of a person you are.

Good luck and I hope this helps!

lilyj  

Answer 2

Just find someone else. u just haven't seen others so u think she's the one".

Answer 3

Then you need to be in romeo mode. No mr. suave because shes honest I think. U might not know she dumped u for another guy.

Yeah be in romeo mode. This topic sounds like a serious relationship. So I think your old enough to understand what im saying. If your a teenager, just forget about her. Wait till your a man then you need to worry.

We all know age doesnt matter in love. But in this era, it doesnt agree with it.

Yeah so if your not a teenager then be in romeo mode. Be sensitive. Do what you can to win if you really like this girl.