Why do ladies not ask men out ?

Question

If a lady can ask a man out, it would be nice, at least it show her feelings to men, that she cares. We men have the same feelings like women, just like a woman would say, what he can do, i can do better. So come on ladies say it like you mean it.

Answer 1

afraid of a no or the woman wants the man to ask because it makes her feel good about herself

Answer 2

I think men deal with rejection a whole lot better than women,  women are very sensitive, and can take things to heart. Men also can, but its not as high as women.

There is also the old fashioned saying "men should make the first move" i mean its silly because if you like each other you should just say it! But alot of women go by this, thus the outcome of women rarely asking out a guy.

Answer 3

I'd have to say because men don't deal with it as well as women. They'll either think the woman is 'loose' because she asks and come on too heavy, or get confused between flattered and annoyed because they feel emasculated and 'girly' to have a woman do the asking. They'll also be far ruder and louder about turning a girl down (never happened to me LOL but I've seen it in pubs and it can be downright nasty).

It depends on the circles you move in too- at uni and in my early 20s, it seemed perfectly acceptable. Now I am older less people do it- and i doubt my parents' generation would look kindly on it.

Answer 4

Oh, but we do!

Answer 5

girls like to feel special when a guy asks them out and they dont want to risk rejection - although i guess the same could be said for a guy!!

Answer 6

You need to get your butt to America, there is no shortage of women asking men out here!

Answer 7

A real lady doesn't have to ask a man out.A real lady knows how to get a man to beg her to go out

Answer 8

I've never had any luck with asking a guy out the few times that I've done so. Most of them felt I was being too bold or passed other judgments about my character. So, I quit doing it.

Answer 9

Because men don't understand women.  

I Corinthians 13;8a, Love never fails.

Answer 10

We do!

Answer 11

It is considered impolite in discrete circles to open ones' mouth whilst swallowing the half-chicken.

Answer 12

Welcome to the club, buddy. All guys have been wanting something like this for a long time.

Answer 13

what r u talking about? r u crazy? girls ain't supposed to do the asking. it's us stupid boys that r supposed to go crazy after girls and fall over themselves. how else would the females pass judgement on us men? what else would the women talk about at their kitty parties? c'mon dude, us men r the main source of entertainment for them females. don't u know that?

Answer 14

maybe because we r too  shy   to ask.

hey but some do ask men out .  

it all depends upon the girl u r talking about she might a little shy to ask you out.

Answer 15

We do just all the time. Ladies have a harder time dealing with rejecting rather than guys do! We really have to know if the guys likes us or not so make sure she knows that you like her (if you have a girl in mind).

Answer 16

men don't want to be treated as cowards! and girls like brave boys mostly.

Answer 17

girls do not ask guys out because it all comes down to laws of nature men are the custodians of the earth. God made adam first and then created eve from his rib

thus men are seen to be superior to women, but women feel theyre superior to men because they can pick and choose who they want.

Answer 18

pluck up some courage men do as well