Why do majority of masculine g**s or bi are in the closet? why do effeminate guys are more proud?

Question

well I never met a guy who looks straight and he could tell me I am g*y.. in the case of effeminate guys.. I know they are g*y because they way of speaking and mannerims and the way to dress.. and many things but a masculine g*y I never heard someone to tell I am g*y.. I dont know.. but someone told me all g**s are sometimes effeminate even they are trying to hide.. I am g*y but I don't know anyone.. I am worried to fall in a stereotype in my small city in Mex.. I think nobody could understand.. my school is small.

Answer 1

People are just different.  You have to be careful because you can't always tell someone's sexual orientation, much like you can't tell their political beliefs, ethnic background or religious beliefs.  There will always be people in any group who are loud, proud and fall into certain stereotypes.  There are also people who live their everyday lives and follow their beliefs quietly without much fuss. The more people that you meet in the different places you go, you will see this. Be yourself, don't fall into stereotypical behavior if you don't want to but don't stereotype either!