Why do married men expect their mistresses to remain faithful?

Question

I'm not the mistress. I am the wife and my husband had an affair for 3 years. He said they are over because she had s*x with someone else.

Answer 1

that is laughable lol

those are foolish men and women

Answer 2

I'm not sure.  That is a good question, and to think they are married but they expect you to remain faithful to them.    

Answer 3

Because they are such great misunderstood people that no one would ever hurt them.

Answer 4

That's the name of the game....If you don't like it,don't do it...

Answer 5

Because they know if you could do any better, you wouldn't be their mistress!

p.s. WOW! you didn't see that one coming out of left field ......... did you?

Answer 6

because they are selfish,

the wife is the cake, and you are the pie,

yet they want both,

he doesnt want you to have another on the side, because your 'his' other on the side.

you see how it works?

no you shouldnt, because men are selfish.

not necessarily all men, i dont want to bash all men, but the 'cheater' is selfish, and wants 'all he can get'

you should already know 'he dont like to share.

same reason he would get mad if he found out it was 'his' wife going behind 'his' back doing the cheating..

Answer 7

I am sure there are loads of selfish reasons.

Answer 8

Because it is a double standard...men and women are wired differently biologically. A man is wired to spread his seed around as much as possible, thus the Mistress on the side. However men do not like it when other men are getting with the woman they are with because THEY want to be the one that impregnates the woman and they don't like other males to have a theoretical chance at this...this means they don't like other males having s*x with the woman they are seeing. While at the same time they feel free themselves to spread the love around.

Answer 9

Because they can't...

Answer 10

Men expect any woman who is emotionally attached to them to be faithful...its otherwise treachery. Take Care

Answer 11

Man has always expected his dog to be loyal to his master.

Answer 12

Because they are stupid!

Answer 13

Cause they are scum in the first place.

Answer 14

Guys are so stupid and he just wanted to be in control

Answer 15

Because they don't want their little hot number to finally figure out that being #2 is not cool. They want to keep them in the dark and they don't want to share.  

Answer 16

they want to have their cake and eat it too - with whipped cream and cherries on top

Answer 17

because whenever they want to show up or call for a booty call they want them there waiting! @ss o's that they are!

Answer 18

so I take it your with married men??? If so bad, bad  go to your dish!

Answer 19

hi mistress .! we wives wish you never existed. hope you are a wife one day to understand the feeling .  

Answer 20

Because men are men, and men love double standards, and misstresses must be stupid to settle for crumbs and destroy families.