Why do married men m********e? ?

Question

My husband and I have s*x regularly. I recently went out of town for a day and he masturbated twice (he told me). I obviously don't care that he does it, I just wonder why when we just had s*x before I left and he masturbated twice the one night I was gone.

Answer 1

Im married and I do that. So does my husband. No big deal.

The thing is that  NO MATTER how good your partner is in bed, the things you can do to yourself, they can't do. It feels good alone, regardless of how much they can please you.

Answer 2

I have never been away from my wife since we've been married for that long and we usually take care of each other's needs.

Answer 3

alot of women do the same thing too

i think its just normal

Answer 4

Totally normal.  He's unloading so you can have fun when you get home;)

Answer 5

It's normal and it feels good? the time was right? His hand says all the right things? He was drunk? Does there have to be a reason?  

Answer 6

maybe he just wanted some pleasure...I guess thats way better than going out looking for someone...or maybe he was watching p**n???

Answer 7

Same reason married women do.

I'm sure you do too.

Answer 8

ALL men do it...married, single, straight, g*y...as long as they have a wanker, they are going to grab it.

Answer 9

He was bored, lonely and horney. You are smart not to mind, it's not like he chooses masturbation over you. But when you aren't around he finds a way to pass some time. It also might help him sleep afterward, which is probably hard to do without you next to him.  

Answer 10

For the same reason a dog licks himself...because he can.

Answer 11

Because when you're not there, he might get horny and need release. This is perfectly normal, try not to let it get to you too much.

Answer 12

He has had a relationship with his p***s for longer than he has had one with you.  They can, so they do.

Answer 13

Because they can.  It relieves sexual tension.

Answer 14

You mean I can have s*x at the EXACT same moment that I get the urge?  What is this thing called?  Mast-master-masturbation?  Oh joy!  

All the pleasure, none of the work.  Yes, we will continue to m********e.  Is it as good as s*x? No...  But it's not a bad substitute!

Answer 15

Sounds normal. Maybe he was so excited about the s*x that he had to think about out and relive it.  

Answer 16

People m********e...  not just men.  Women do to.  It has nothing to do with what they get at home, or who they are married to...  it means nothing.  

Why do women think if a man is with her that there will be no more touching of himself, no more girly mags, no more fascination with p**n...  for centuries women have tried to make men stop, give it up.  He's not cheating on you.  But I guess women need something to say negatively about their man...  

Answer 17

Because he is a man.  Obviously as women we know that s*x is at the top of every man's list (whether it's a honey-do list or a work list, if a man could write it out, s*x would be at the top of every list they make).  

Answer 18

He did it because he wanted to. I rather him do that then call someone over to help him out. Married men m********e because it feels good and they want to.  

Answer 19

It is s*x without the nagging.

Answer 20

men are never satisfied with what they have, they always want more,more more more more more more more more more more.

Answer 21

it doesn't seem so obvious to me that you don't care about him masturbating, otherwise you wouldn't have asked.

Answer 22

Thats like asking a dog why it licks it's genitals, the obvious answer is because "it can". It's all about the pleasure/response. If something feels good were inclined to keep on doing it.

Answer 23

Hey, where are all the anti-masturbaters that answered the 13 year old kid's question awhile ago?  From their responses, you'd think we were in the middle of the Spanish Inquisition!  It's good to see there are still people who have healthy, open views of s*x/sexuality/masturbation.  I was beginning to wonder......

Answer 24

Same reason some married women m********e...it feels good.  I find that it relieves tension and helps me sleep.  Keep in mind that he may have been thinking about how much he missed you and then one thing led to another.  Basically it is perfectly normal to m********e.

Answer 25

This is an extremely complicated answer, so I hope you understand.  Here goes, are you ready for the reason why married men m********e?  It's because a wedding ceremony does not have a magical power that causes masturbation to stop feeling good.