Why do men NOT MARRY the one they loved The Most?

Question

Is it because those women do not make good wife material? Then they marry a "nice" woman and years later leave her because "I was never in love with you."

Answer 1

"Sack"ogowia doesn't necessarily make a good, nurturing mother.

Answer 2

because they are .. they sometimes .. i dont know how to answer i thought i did but now that im trying i dont know .. maybe its cuz they dont know who they love .. i dont have a dad because he stopped loving her so i dont know y ...

Answer 3

Because they couldnt have them. So they settled for second best.

Answer 4

because they want 2 be good friends all of their life

Answer 5

I don't think that is true I think people in general marry the one they think they are in love with it's just sometimes it wasn't really love it was lust a lot of people can't tell the difference. I believe anyone can be a good wife or husband if they really want to. It's just not what some people want or put first.

Answer 6

cause the one we loved most...  was too hott to even notice me.. lol  

Answer 7

Probably cause their fantasy loves   weren't interested in them.

So many people end up married because they " get pregnant".  Yes, I know, their doing the process backwards, but that's the way the USA is and has been for many years.

They marry to be doing the "right thing".   Just because they were having s*x, doesn't mean they were in LOVE.  2 different things all together.

Maybe by them using the words, I was never in love with you, is their statement to maybe give them the courage to walk away.  I personally feel that statement is as good as it gets and as close as it gets to the whole truth!

Answer 8

I guess ur boyfriend dumped you. Because my husband loves me and married me because of that. How can u speak for all men?

Dont blame all men just cause u got screwed..Its not healthy

Answer 9

Because there is no such thing as mutual love, there is only obsession and idyll.

Answer 10

This isn't something that happens to ALL MEN as you imply, and it happens to women too, and the reasons are varied - maybe they were too young and not ready, maybe the person they really loved didn't love them back.

Answer 11

I didn't know most men did that.  I actually think that's not giving some men enough credit.  I actually do think most men DO marry the one they loved the most.  

Answer 12

i guess because they havent found the one. they think they love them, but years later its dies. they have to find the one. like when you look at her you hear music play, you only see her, you tihnk about her etc etc.

Answer 13

I guess it's just because they were in love with love. They think that they have found "the one", but they were wrong. There's also the reason that they have some kind of bad experience with their past love, so maybe they're afraid to fall in love again.. they just marry someone "nice" and be done with it. Sure, I guess they're happy, but to a certain extent.

If a guy truly loves someone, it doesn't matter if she's good wife material or not. He would be able to overlook that little fact because if he is truly in love, then he wouldn't give a d**n as long as she is by his side until the end.