Why do men cheat on women? I am serious, is this something we as woman should just accept?

Question

and why do woman sleep with someone elses husband? do they not have any idea how much that can hurt the wife, i dont understand cheating,why be with someone if you need to be with others?

Answer 1

Honestly, we tend to get tired of talking and being with the same person day end and out. After awhile having s*x with the person over and over gets real boring. And then threes the nagging part. Sometimes it just best go and get a hooker, just for something different in our lives. But then again, men are the only ones that cheat in a relationship, you'll never catch the female cheating. God knows that they are just too perfect.

Answer 2

maybe it's just the women that you know who do this. remember to attract  a moral person you have to BE a moral person...

Answer 3

Not all men cheat on women.  The ones that do are looking to fill some kind of emptiness within themselves.  They seek out the next woman and the next woman in hopes of finding someone to fill that void.  But, it never gets filled because it has to be filled by them.  They think having s*x with as many women as they possibly can in one lifetime will make them more of a man, when it really is just continuing proof of their inability to grow up and become a man.

Women sleep with someone else's husband for the same reason.  They are weak and hoping that because this man finds them desirable, it validates them as a woman.  

Both the cheating men and women need to realize that they need to work on themselves, fill the void themselves, and be responsible for their own happiness.  At the point they become a whole person, they won't seek someone else to complete them.  

The cheaters stay with their husband or wife because they lack the courage to be honest and say they don't want to be in the relationship anymore.  They are afraid to be alone and want the husband or wife to be the backup partner when the one they are cheating with leaves them.

Cheating should not be accepted.  There are men and women who want to be in a committed, loving, caring, and faithful relationship, so don't settle for anything less.

Answer 4

I believe cheating is thought of as exotic. If you're married, it seems to give you the feeling of being young and it's also a self esteem booster in the sense that someone besides your husband/wife is attracted to you. One of my family friends had an affair on her husband. At the time she had no idea how serious her decision was- then it got out of hand, and she still regrets it everyday of her life. She's divorced now and is raising her son alone. She understands NOW, how much it hurt not only her husband but her friends and family as well. But at the time- it just seemed like fun and games.

Answer 5

cheating does not have to do with s*x, race or age. there is good people, bad people, remember no one is perfect. person might not cheat in relationship but could have bad qualities

Answer 6

i don't think its just men, or just woman, It's just who the person is. In our society today, s*x is such a big part of our everyday life, tv, movies, music, its just the norm. And i think that gives everyone way more temptation, So its hard to stay away from something thats so appealing, Thats why you should never have a relationship with a weak person, who can't resist appealing things. And some people can't just enjoy what they have, they always want that other thing to, having your cake and eating it too. All you can do is be the best person you can be, and hopefully find someone who is good to you as well, but sadly to say, everyones heart will be broken, lots and lots of times, before they find real love.