Why do men get a funky attitude when your trying to be s**y and playful?

Question

This is my husband at home in the privacy of our on house.

Answer 1

funky ? mine just comes off as horny , was the desired effect.

Answer 2

Because my dear, some men are just "country" and that has nothing to do with urban or rural living.  It's a state of mind.  Some of these same men knew what seduction was before you married and it is hard to figure out how they became "duh".  Men who have a sense of humor in the everyday life of marriage usually handle this much better than those who don't.  Tell your husband that you do it for him for a change of pace and fun and would appreciate it if he does the same for you in his own way.

Be Blessed

Answer 3

I understand your confusion.  It seems to me that although some men claim they want you to "take charge" and be aggressive, it seems that desire is some intellectual, "I should feel this way" abstraction.  It seems that most want to be the more aggressive partner.  It took me a while to figure that out.  Guys.  correct me if you can be honest and help me understand, cause I want to know too.  

Answer 4

All men are different, maybe your style doesn't fit the men you get your type of groove on for.  To each his own they say. Find a better fit or tune up your performance.

Answer 5

I hate that.  They start getting all nasty and vulgar.  It makes you not want to get s**y and flirty with them.  Why can't they just accept it as what it is, interest in them, not necessarily that you are ready to hop in the sack with them.

Answer 6

Are you talking about men in general or about your man???

either way maybe you are coming on too strong to the point that makes you look trashy or something.

They do like seduction, sensuality, teasing etc but do it with class, they don't like giveaways.

Answer 7

LOL!!! my hubby does the same thing when I put on lingerie and makeup. He says, " what you got that on for?" I think they just don't know how to respond to something different and playful. But trust me they do like it.

Answer 8

well, maybe its just your men cause you come off in a weird way