Why do men get judged for not paying child support yet women

Question

Can just abort and it is just deemed as her making a choice? I mean if a women can make a decision to not have anything to do with a child and get rid of it why are men seen as scum if they choose to not take responsibility for a child they helped create I'm sure they would have gotten rid of it if they had any sort of say in the matter? I don't understand this double standard.

Answer 1

I am a woman who had to pay child support... i couldn't afford it and have a huge back support built up... I did not have a problem with the father until he started drugs and ended up hitting me every day... This was 1 1/2 yrs after the kids were born... so is this my fault???...

now i have custody of my sons and here i am paying off my back support but they won't go after him for current support....

man your a joke!!!!!!   tell me what's fair.... i'm going broke in the meantime

Answer 2

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/survivingchildsupport/

This group was created to help answer questions and to help ease the pain and struggle of day to day life after 1/2 your pay check is taken away for your child. Does the custodial parent get ordered to work? No, she lives off your check and probebly several others. I hope you read the group site and decide to join.

Answer 3

I blame feminazis.

Most oldschool feminists, such as Susan B. Anthony and such, were actually against things like abortion, and actually fought for real equal rights.

Feminazis are not for equal rights.  They want women to be above men and have the freedom to do everything (except things they don't like), and everyone who doesn't think like them is anti-woman, even other women.

They want women to be "Goddesses" and not be held responsible or criticized for any of their actions.