Why do men get married if they dont even know what REAL love is?

Question

to a guy love is when a girl makes him feel happy,the s*x is good and shes the hottest thing he can get..at the moment that is.not speaking for ALL men but i speak in general.the reason why marriages dont last anymore is because men fall in lust and THINK its love.if this wasnt so, men wouldnt suddenly claim to "fall out of love" once women have babies and start gaining a bit of weight.while alot of women still stay true to their husbands even when he gets fat and old men dont do the same.so whats the point of marriage?

Answer 1

Because - My hubby tells me he loves me for me..even if I gain weight, even if I loose. He wants me to be happy. He does not care what I look like (Im multi-racial - he is white, I dont think im that pretty, he does not care) - He wants children...im not sure I do. lol

Point is...REAL LOVE is WHY YOU GET MARRIED! Its a PROMISE forever to love and to HELP one another!!!!!!!

G-d with all My heart I love my hubby, he is my world and even though he screws up...i will always love him!  

Answer 2

Because they want guaranteed company Some people hate to be alone.

Answer 3

The real question is what is love? Who is to say that women have the right idea about love and men don't? Is love as made up as Valentine's Day? The fact is that everyone is brought up differently and thinks of love in different ways. So before you think that men are wrong about their logic of what love is, just make sure you have solid evidence to back up that women know any better.

Answer 4

There is gender equality in the blame game for divorce.  I think (for men and women) many (not all) marry because they are ready to be married and if they get along ok with who they are dating they tie the knot.  Unfortunatly, they do not look to see if this is going to be a good life partner.  Someone they want to grow old with and learn with and handle crises with and will they be a partner (not someone looking for a caretaker) and a good role model for their children.  Marriage takes work, and both partners must be willing to commit.

Answer 5

so why woman starts gaining weight after she had babies? cos she is lazy and useless. i used to be hot when i was 20 years old and i am still hot when i have 3 kids and almost 40 years old - my body is even better - more toned. yes, my husband married me cos i was making him happy, s*x was and is good and i am the hottest thing he can get (well, actually he could do even better but he doesn't know it so i won't tell him). and what does love mean for u may i ask? when your wife used to be a cute college chick and now she is a mountain of lard and u keep saying "i fell in love with inside and not outside"? this is plain stupid. women re supposed to be beautiful and they re supposed to be loved for that . and yes, i expect thumbs down from all those lardy people who hang out here