Why do men have unprotected s*x if they aren't ready for the child?

Question

I dont understand how men have unprotected s*x and then when the child comes along they seem clueless. If you dont want kids why risk it?

Answer 1

it feels good!! They have unprotected s*x with an unspoken agreement in place that its for a good feeling and not to create a child, the unspoken agreement is also that if there is a pregnency its to be aborted and no faults are to blame, both male and female take that risk in unprotected s*x for pleasure.

Its very different if people are having s*x to have a child... very!

Answer 2

because they think they can get away with it, it's not like they have to carry the baby in their stomach and everything. they can just deny it's theirs and leave you hanging.

that or they're just drunk and don't think about it or expect you to get the morning after pill or something.

annnd fyi, the girl is just as bad if she has s*x without any contraception.

Answer 3

because they think that its also our responsibility as females to take protect ourselves also...

my opinion...i think both the male and female should both take responsibility in using birth control because condoms arent 100% effective..

Answer 4

Because s*x is much better for men "naked", they don't get pregnant. Men are led around by IT.

Answer 5

-drunk

-feels better

Answer 6

Because they dont care as much, and the women are always left with raring kids and bring them up in most cases..

So basically they just put s*x bfore ur life and feelings?

Like.. do they not even care about spredn diseases!!!!

Answer 7

Because they are stupid.

Answer 8

You could make the same argument about women who have abortions. If you don't want to give birth to a child, why the h**l didn't you make him wear a condom in the first place? Or here's an idea: use the pill.

Answer 9

because they are thick in the head

Answer 10

Both men and women ought to be responsible when it comes to s*x..Pregnancy is one thing to think of.  And 18 year responsibility can arise from this situation.....But what about respecting your own body? Diseases are out there waiting for you...And what about having a baby with aids? Now doesn't that sound interesting !!!!!! Both parties need to be more responsible in this day and age..And women you control who you have s*x with...So why would you have unprotected s*x with someone who is not yet ready to be a parent...Please be more responsible....Having children can rearrange your life completely...So if your not ready don't take that step...

Answer 11

The same reason that the women they sleep with allow them to have s*x without protection.  This is not a one way street, with only one person in charge of thinking.  It takes two to have a baby, and they both have an equal opportunity to stop or take the chance.  So to be fair, it is both men and women who are at fault for having unwanted pregnancies.