Why do men leave woman they love?

Question

my boyfriend of three months broke up with me this past thursday.

sounds typical. overused. ambiguous.

because it is.

and unfortunately, its not.

there is a lot of weight behind this statement.

hes 22 im 19; hes a sensitive caring guy with a variety of different girls that left him, cheated on him, left him heartbroken.

i could go through all the details of how wonderful

our relationship was.

how i did anything for him,

how much he told me i meant to him, how appreciated he felt.

how, through sobs and tears, he told me he loved.

but to be blunt, the only viable reason he could offer me

was my morals and beliefs as a christian would keep us seperated

and that i should have someone who shares these principles.

if someone would be willing to message here or email me, concerning the question i asked, id be so grateful to listen to any advice or simular experiences.

thank you.

out of his now 8 relationships,

3 of which he was cheated on,

do you think he may have been afraid that we were becoming to serious and that i may break his heart like the others?

not at all to sound narcissistic, only to make reason of the possibility.

hah one last thing...

he would always ask me about my feelings based on my walk as a christian.

i never tried to force him to talk about anything he didnt want to or impose.

Answer 1

First of all, I don't believe there is only one reason for a break up, but a few and they could all be related reasons...  It can be very complicated.  One of them is probably what he said to you, that he wanted you to find someone with the same religious values as you.  Another may be that he wants to protect himself from getting hurt.  Also, when a person has gotten hurt in a previous relationship, they may hurt someone else who hasn't done anything to them.  It just works like that sometimes.  Or perhaps he broke up with you because he realized that he didn't actually love you or that you weren't the one for him.  I don't mean to be harsh, but it's a possibility.

Answer 2

8 relationship by age 22 ? ...and you were with him for 3 months ? ....i think his time with you had run its course and he was ready to move on.....And since he did, then maybe he wasn't as caring and sensitive , etc ..as you think.....And the religion thing..and the 3 girls who cheated out of 8  ( that means 5 didn't cheat ) ...that just sounds more like excuses to avoid a committed relationship ... ..the truth is that he left you even though you had not cheated ..and he also knew you cared for him.. it makes me think he wasn't really in love with you....Sorry, but  move on.

Answer 3

It is the start of his crusade ... he will have revenge on 20 women in one day from now on... because he was cheated on 3 times in his life... he will return it 10-fold to as many chicks as possible i'm tellin' ya !  

Answer 4

maybe he doesnt wanna get hurt

Answer 5

I like the first answer!  But on a serious note, you should just trust the reason he gave you.  Relationships between people who have totally different spiritual beliefs are very difficult.  Take it from me, I am Southern Baptist and my first husband was Jewish and from Russia.  Talk about a clash!  You maybe better off finding someone with the same values and beliefs.