Why do men lie in a relationship? I am in a relationship for 11 years through the ups and downs ?

Question

I am in a relationship for a very long time and I am tired of it!! We have a child together so its hard just to leave, but he lies about being on the internet talking and emailing other women!! And that is the tip of the Iceberg!! What should I do??

Answer 1

You let him get away with it.  Why are you letting him?

Answer 2

YO SWEETHEART .....STOP RIGHT THERE ! !

I was in the same type of relationship,.....She was on the internet all night long and that was the beginning of the end! So its not only men , its woman too........I WANT A LONG TRUSTING RELATIONSHIP TO BUILD A FAMILY AROUND TO LAST FOR EVER and yes THERE WAS A BABY INVOLVED THAT I HAVE PRIMARY CUSTODY OF ! SHE IS MY WORLD AND ALTHOUGH IT WOULD BE NICE TO HAVE THE OTHER HALF , NOT MY DAUGHTERS MOM , BUT A WOMAN THAT CAN FILL THE MOTHERLY PART THAT I CAN NOT , ..MY QUESTION IS IS THERE A WOMAN OUT THERE LOOKING TO FILL THIS POSITION ??//.....

Answer 3

most people lie a little, but this is bothering you.  have a heart to heart with him and tell him how it makes you feel when he does it and when he tells you things that aren't true.  

Answer 4

most men are DOGS !!

with there brain in their pants and no respect

Answer 5

I am a firm believer in people treat us how we teach them.  If he is treating you badly and disrespecting you, it is because you are permitting it.  You are in control of your own life and doing your child no favors by teaching them it is acceptable to be treated badly.....it is not.  Take control of your own life and put a stop to him disrespecting you.  Leave and don't look back.