Why do men play with "it"?

Question

I've seen my husband lying in bed watching tv and almost unconsciously playing with "it." I've asked why he does that and he doesn't really have an answer. He's not stimulating himself or anything, he's just flopping it around and stuff, you know, literally "playing" like it's a toy or something.

I don't get it. I can honestly say I don't sit and watch my tv shows and flop and bounce my chest around. What gives????

Answer 1

my husband says it like playing with a stress ball

Answer 2

I have never seen my husband do that...but they are men...they probably don't know what to do with it...

guess it makes a nice toy...or maybe it's therapeutic!!!

Answer 3

Woahhh.

lol my boyfriend does the exact d**n thing..

its like a child whos just dicovered whats down there..

Must be a guy thing.  

Answer 4

Cause he's a man that's why lol.

They all do it.

Answer 5

well we start doing this at about 10 or 11 and its just a hard habit to break..and too it feels good even if its not erect. just like girls are brought up to ***** and complain..its just a habit. so i say he is normal and your normal...

Answer 6

Why do women pleasure themselves? Cause it feels good. Both men and women do these things. Just cause you dont doesnt mean others dont, and not all men do that, so hush up lady

PS 'man yogurt' you're really ignorant. If your woman is only interested for a few days tops then I think you need to brush up on your skills man :) you obviously arent giving her what she needs

Answer 7

It is really a bad habit only. Or he must have some infaction there. So guide your husband to get some anti-fungal cream applied there and please stop doing such action as it is not plateable.  OR tie his hand for some time to divert his mind.

Answer 8

I don't know but I think that's funny too.  He does it in his sleep.  Maybe because it sticks out?  I guess if I had something dangling from my arm I might want to touch it?  LOL!

Answer 9

My husband says it is soothing to him. I notice him doing it unconsciously and when I point it out then hes like...WHAT? He doesnt notice half the time when he is doing it.

Answer 10

There is nothing wrong with that.  It's like when a woman curls her hair.

Why don't you push his hand to the side and take the reigns.  He'll love that.

Answer 11

well first off it would be your genitals you would be playing with, not your chest. i think it is an unconscious thing for most men and/or they need to readjust. our organs are inside so we don't have this issue. i get a kick out of watching my husband.

Answer 12

there is no answer.    That is just what we do.  I'm grabbing it right now.

Answer 13

he plays with "it" because you don't

Answer 14

same reason why i play with my long hair- just because!! no biggie!!

(it's cute when guys play with their p***s, makes me wanna go over and help him with my..nvm, sorry PG13)lol.

Answer 15

hahaha oh boyy...well maybe he's trying to give u a signal "im playing with it because i want you to" ?? lol im srry i dont know.

Answer 16

It's his private joy toy.  He is proud of it just like he is with any part of his body.  Let him be a man.