Why do mexican girls at my school hate me? I don't even do anything to them?

Question

Okay, I'm 13, white, brunnette, green eyes. My friend Paola introduced me to her friends. Anyways, they were pointing at me and speaking spanish. (Just to let you know I am a very generous down-to-earth person, and sometimes I can be shy I am not obnoixious or rude) So later, I asked her what they were saying about me. The girls said, "I don't like her, she's white, ugly, and blonde and over dramatic" I thought it was very weird they said that because I only spoke a little. Do mexican girls stereotype all white girls as blonde, preppy and s****.!? I'm not blonde I'm brunnette! And I am not rich or s****.. Infact my family almost lost our house! I could of been on the streets! Anyways Paola told me the boy named Jesus said, "Hey someone tell the white blonde girl to leave and beat it" or something like that. The girls know this one illeagal immigrint named Omar, (They all like him) and he asked me for a kiss the first time I met him and wanted to go out with me. And Omar's two brothers like me and flirted with me to. So might this be what they don't like about me? I've noticed all the mexican girls I meet besides Paola and three others tend to be rude and hate me because I'm a "white girl." I've NEVER done anything to them and I barley know them! Please someone answer kindly, and I am NOT racist, but this just irratates me. I feel like an outcast and as if I am belittled by my color. I have no one else to hang out at school because all my friends transfered. Almost all the kids at school speak spanish, and they don't like me because I'm "white" And if I don't hang out with these guys, I'll be all alone because most of my friends either have a differ lunch per. or have transfered. PLEASE HELP ME!

*When the girls spoke to me in english, they were kind and complimented my jewlery and eyes,but then the min. they spoke spanish, they pointed at me and gave me dirty looks and smirked. As if they thought I was stupid and couldn't tell they were talking about me.

Answer 1

plain & simple, they are jealous of you and feel threatened, i would not trust them for a second.  Why did your friends transfer?  Did the mexicans run them off?  When the whences complimented you it was just a confirmation (in my way of thinking) that they are trying to butter you up then turn on you.  Go to another school, or asked mom & dad to home school you.  I feel for you, i would not want to be a teenager now days.  I haven't met a mexican chick yet that wasn't jealous of pretty white girls, especially blondes.

Answer 2

there just being some haters.

at my school there is a lot of

mexicans and some are just

plain out rude. i have gone to

the same school district since

kindergarten and you just gotta

be care-full of what you do cause

if you do one thing wrong the all

of them think your the devil. be

care-full of you sourdings. i know

its hard but you just have to do it.

hope i helped.

Answer 3

u already asked this and chose a best answer why would u bother again .......

Answer 4

no not all mexican girls  judge white girls as preps im mexican and i have about 3-4 white girl-friends and where all cool with each other ones ghetto and the rest rockers.But sense you said that mr popular is flirting with you they probably are jealous of you cause of that dont let it bother you and try to make friends they probably came from some kinda place where white people had made fun of them who knows but just ignore them just like in every raze theres the good one the bad and the racist ones

Answer 5

There just haters don't listen to what they tell you and walk away tell your teacher and your parents of how there treating you.

I'm mexican and I don't think your a s****. girl you are down to earth and shy like me and there are some mexican girls who are mean but don't let them get to you ok.

Hoped I have helped in some way.

Answer 6

i aint got notin against mexicans but some r just mean cause there r some in my nieghborhood that tryed 2 egg me while i was walkin

Answer 7

Just try not to let it bother you.  A lot of times, people talk down on you to make themselves feel better.  They are probably insecure and the only thing they have in common is their dislike for you.

Take it as a compliment.  You must be doing something right.  You're fabulous without even trying!

Answer 8

They're just hating.

Answer 9

You have to admit that, whether or not they are illegal, mexicans in the US are constantly belittled and insulted for their nationality. They usually get that kind of c**p from the racial majority: white people. For obvious reasons, this creates anger in them. Some people let this resentment get too far and affect their perception of all white people.

In other words, you are a victim of racism. Sad, but true.

There's not much you can do about it, really. You can keep being nice to them, and hopefully your kindness will get past their prejudice, and they'll eventually drop it and open up to you.

Although it beats the h**l out of me why you'd wanna hang out with such hypocrites.

Answer 10

Since you're 13, I think the best answer you'll get is from your parents or your teacher. Ask for advice and they'll help you out. Many people will answer different thing, but you should listen to the ones who really know who you are.

Good Luck!

Answer 11

maybe they're jealous of you...or maybe they aren't used to caucasians?

Answer 12

If they were secure with themselves, or thought that you were ugly, they would not care.  

Obviously, they are jealous of you.