Why do most of us ladies act like we don't love and or need s*x just as much as guys ?

Question

Guys you didnt know ?

Answer 1

It took many long months for me to learn that s*x is a wonderful thing and that there is nothing inherently wrong in wanting and having s*x.  This on the tail of a fairly religious up-bringing and growing up in the HIV/AIDS generation.

Many of my younger family members are so worried about being labeled a s**t or a w***e that they profess abstinence and deny and and all sexual urges.  Two of my cousins (15 and 16) have already had babies and STILL spew this nonsense.  

We really need to work on turning these notions around.

Answer 2

Well I'm a woman, and I have an awesome libido.. soo..

I LOVE, CRAVE, NEED, WANT s*x ALL THE FREAKIN TIME!!

Can't get enough of it, an o****m is the greatest gift of all

s*x is very important for me in a relationship, the most or one of the most important factors, it symbolizes what the relationship is. Love, proves if the guy is selfish or not, shows if he cares to make you happy, and reveals whether or not he would ever put you first

Answer 3

I don't know why most women do that, I am not one of them. I think my drive is probably right up there if not more then my husbands.

Answer 4

Sweeping generalizations such as this are never a good thing.

Answer 5

Well i'm a guy...but my guess would be that yall do it because it's the only thing yall can do to make us regret whatever "mistake" we made.

Answer 6

I never pretend that I need s*x less than a guy, especially not for the sake of looking like a "good girl" because what does that accomplish? I probably wouldn't attract the kind of guy I really want that way. Any man who wants a woman who, "Looks at the ceiling and thinks about Britain" while he's having s*x with her isn't the type of guy I want to be dating or sleeping with. If both parties in the relationship are up front about how often they want/enjoy s*x and open about their desires once the relationship starts, everyone is happier for it in the end.  

Answer 7

Why do idioitc misogynists feel the need to invent obvious fake avatras and post dim witted questions?

Answer 8

i need s*x as much as men and to me if i havent orgasmed the job isnt finishing. the people answering different are properly older. young girls expect good s*x, orgasms etc and older women have been conditioned not to want it.

Answer 9

Can only speak for myself when I say this...

For me, s*x is almost secondary in a relationship.  That doesn't mean I rarely have s*x, that I don't understand that it's important to the person I'm with, or that I'm constantly saying "Sorry, I have a headache".  What I mean is that I do not think about it as much as my boyfriend does (or any man I've ever known and talked to about this) and that I've never really considered it a "need" in terms of stress relief etc. Because of this, sexually I've always been much more of "the giver" because I become more turned on at the idea of making the other person feel good and fulfilling their needs than I do about my own "big O".

The funny thing is the reaction I get when discussing this is vastly different depending on which gender I'm speaking to.  If I'm talking to men about this, the reaction I receive is either "Well, that's because you're a girl" or "You just haven't had great s*x yet" (lol that's my favorite) but when I talk to women it runs along the lines of "You're a freak of nature"

LOL, I think the women are closer to the truth.

Answer 10

It isn't an act for me. I can take care of myself when the need arises. If it was up to my husband we would have s*x multiple times a day but I'm not up for that...at all.

Answer 11

Because I don't. Personally I'd rather m********e.  

Answer 12

i dont no wat u mean....  i do jus fine without any guy in my life...  y do so many women think they NEED a man for anything???

Answer 13

I'm open to getting laid.

Answer 14

I don't know what ladies you're talking to, but everyone I know (and myself included) is very open about their sexual nature and desires.  We have no problem admitting that we want and need s*x just as much as the next guy.  Of course, we're all military (or once military) and the military makes you become FAR more open about things.  s*x being one of them.

Answer 15

really!

Answer 16

There are some of us ladies that have had a painful background or childhood and would like to forget all about how powerful s*x is.  It is unfair that some women have to go thru the act to please a partner for the sake of "proving" their love.  I find it appalling that we should have s*x just so the other partner will be appeased or "taken care of." Is s*x necessary to PROVE that you love someone or that you want to be with them.  If it is, I must be on a planet of my own. Its ok to do "it" but when it becomes an expectation, it becomes quite the turn off.