Why do most women hate really extroverted, s**y (usually blond) women?

Question

I had a big party a couple of years ago with the performer being this really flirty, extroverted, blond (some may say a bimbo-type) woman as the singer. All the guys loved her -- but all the women were very sour about her. After, my wife told me that many of the women were really taken aback that I had hired this woman as a performer. She actually had great credentials.

Why do most women really despite the blond bimbo type?

Answer 1

Women who act like bimbos to get male attention because they have no personality with which to attract attention set the cause of women's equality  back decades.

Answer 2

Good question, but I have a better one...

Why is it that when a group of guys are at a party and a male GQ type, dressed impeccably, his teeth shine when he smiles, etc. Love to jump all over the "He must be g*y" comments?  Especially when they are with a really extroverted, s**y (usually blond) woman?

To answer your question (as not to get violated, had enough of that lately...read between the lines...) it is probably because society has defined that extroverted, s**y (usually blond) women are how all women are supposed to be, or at least striving to be.  

Yet I don't see too many men suddenly tucking in their shirts and getting manicures...(but I like the ones that do!)

Answer 3

I like extroverted s**y women or men-blond or not. But I don't think much of men or women who act stupid (that's what bimbo implies to me). Sounds like you're generalizing hon.

Answer 4

Why do most men hate the absolutely gorgeous guys that have perfect smiles, impeccable taste, and advanced skills in about everything, but still exude a certain air of masculinity?

Answer 5

That's because she stole the male attention from the rest of the women.  They are jealous, pure and simple.

Answer 6

Women fear anyone they perceive as a potential threat to the security of their relationship.  Mind you, such fear may be unfounded and a little biased, but that's how society has taught us.  If another woman looks or acts threatening, then she's an open target for our wrath.  We women spend most of our lives looking for a mate, and we don't want someone to come in and overnight take what we've worked so hard to achieve.  Women are naturally protective and jealously guard those we choose to mate with.

Answer 7

i am extroverted and not blond but i usually get my fair share of male attention. The problem i would have with a bimbo is, well, she's a bimbo. I used to hang out with girls who felt the need to act like they were airheads around men so that they seem more attractive, my sister was one of them. I never liked it and i felt ashamed for them that any human should have to play dumb to be liked. I am sure if i talked to the blond "bimbo" at your party i would find out that she is smarter than she lets on around men. That is what would p**s me off, not her blond hair or good looks.

Answer 8

I am not and have never been jealous or catty about any other women, blond, extroverted, s**y, bimbo, flirty, or otherwise. I have just never felt that way. I can't explain why. I guess I'm just comfortable enough with my own looks and who I am. I don't feel threatened by other women that way.  If she was a good singer and that's what you hired her for, then I'd say she did a good job.

Answer 9

I don't know why,  I'm not blond and I am not a bimbo type, and I am quite secure in my life, and have no reason to stereotype other women...makes no sense at all to me...for starters, you cannot judge a book by its cover...same principle with people...there are different "calibers" of women and ladies in this world...I personally am content with who I am.  Intimidation is not something I feel on a regular basis...if ever...Life is what it is.  :)

Answer 10

Because they know that "type" of woman get lots of male attention. Probably more than they can EVER get on their best day.

Jealousy

Answer 11

Jealousy,plain and simple. A women hates that type because they divert male attention from  themselves. This is a very primitive and basic response by women who feel inferior to a stunning,extroverted blond woman.

Answer 12

many women are haters, plain and simple!  everything is always a competition!  whether it's height, breast size, weight, hair, etc......   not sure  why women are so competitive towards each other, maybe it's the motherly instinct or hormones.   oh yeah, you could blame the religous roots of american settlers, ie puritans, etc.......

honestly, i would say that the two major reasons most people react this way are insecurity and jealousy.  i have heard arguments otherwise but when you get back to the root of the problem, that's it in a nutshell.   Maybe you should find a more down to earth, not so uptight group of friends.  If they call themselves normal, RUN!!!!  that's a sure sign they have hidden issues

Answer 13

I don't know of anyone who hates me, or even dislikes me for that matter.  I believe your problem may lie in what sort of performer she is and how much dignity these women perceived she may have had to lack to be such a performer.  Of course you have not disclosed what type of performance she did so it may be difficult to know.

Answer 14

Do you really need to ask?

Men drool and make absolute asses of themselves falling over themselves when a blond is around.

So it's not the blond's fault entirely, and women don't despise the blond bimbo type,  it's the men's behavior that pisses off the women more.

Answer 15

were jealouse in a way i guess u could say...

not that we want to be like them, but we think thats what every guy wants and we dont like being around them because they make us look bad, and our men look at them..

wow, im very honest huh :]

Answer 16

It's because most women recognize her for what she really is - a tease. She flirts because she likes the attention she gets but she has no intention of having s*x with you. She'll drop you as soon as you stop paying attention to her or when she gets bored and moves on to someone else.

Answer 17

because most of them are hoes, whores, exc. and they are also know as b******. thats why. anymore questions? lol. ;)

Answer 18

to tell you the truth,i really dont care.as long as she doesnt hit on my man,or mess with me,then i could care less if she was a S****y stripper,but then,i wouldnt be at the party if that was the case.

Answer 19

I suspect you might have got a similar reaction from the men if you'd hired a really gorgeous male singer and all the women had been drooling over him.

Answer 20

Girls are very catty. Meoww! They feel threatened by the image of so-called perfection, so they act like complete b*****s.

Answer 21

I don't, but that's because I'm bi and I tend to have a thing for really s**y women.

Answer 22

Maybe some women are afraid their own shortcomings may show up when a slightly more attractive woman is around. That and their significant other's reactions to this woman. Or maybe everyone hates what they most want to be like and aren't.

Answer 23

their jealous because the guys love us:)

Answer 24

answer: jealousy and feeling incompetent.

Answer 25

the reason is because they jealous they dont want a women flirting with they husband.

Answer 26

Maybe they think they will steal away their bf or husband